IN DEMAND!!! :) . Marriage Proposals

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Ok, soooo I have been getting marriage proposals MashAllah. Aunties spot me in gatherings and send proposals to my family. My concern is not to settle for less. I trust my family in their decision before I get to talk to him. I want a caring, handsome, and loving husband more than anything. He doesn’t have to be rich yet well-established and educated. How can I make myself more in-demand that men cannot resist me. I know men are visual so you gotta look good and up-to-date. Can you please advise me on becoming irresistible? Since I know aunties are looking for rishtas, I try to look extremely beautiful on purpose whenever I am attending any sort of desi events. It is so hard to find decent men these days because I acknowledge the fact that men here in the U.S. loves to seek girls from Pakistan. I wanna keep my options open and create unlimited rishtas for myself. Gimme good insights :)…

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You should ask Queen_24. She inspires envy in people. :p

@queen...j/k

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priceless!

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Well...you have to remember that these rishtas are being sent by aunties and not their sons.

So the key to get to the aunties.

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are you for real??!!!

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Yes, what's wrong with creating more options for yourself and becoming demanding? :)

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If the mom likes your appearance and educational standards then I believe her son will be interested too.

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Re: IN DEMAND!!! :slight_smile: . Marriage Proposals

Regardless, I love her voice.

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ur kidding right?

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I am very serious. I think molding yourself to be the best can improve your chances of getting decent proposals that you have always wanted.

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I am sorry. Her Royal Majesty Queen the 24th and M_was_here have already called dibs on last two perfect men on Earth.

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I'd suggest investing in a pair of silicones. The bigger the better.

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BombShellBabe, you said you are 'seedhi'.

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Just be a good daughter, good sister, good friend and overall a good human being. Every guy and/ or his mom/ famiyl has different criteria for the girl they want to marry and you cannot please everybody. You cannot change your looks but you can keep yourself well groomed. Not everyone who likes you want to propose to you since there are many other factors involved as well. If a guy and/ or his mom likes you when they see you, they don't immediately get to know about your education, family back ground, caste etc which might be important factors in deciding whether to propose or not.

Just be a good human being and just be yourself. You cannot please everybody and cannot fulfil the criteria of everyone.

"People are just like camels, out of one hundred, one can hardly find a single camel suitable to ride." Sahih Al Bukhari, Vol 8, Hadith No. 505

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SO in a nutshell u desire to be desired by many aunties and their sons. But ur desire is not a some what of a seedhi kaki desire. hmmmmm u have now converted to a chalako kaki.

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Bombs are always in demand regardless of their looks...

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Just be yourself rather than putting on a show for people.

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take care of your reputation among colleagues, friends and relatives. that will help a loooooot and 2nd thing be very polite and style of speaking to others also a thing which can help you beat other girls

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Thank you so much for your great advice. I do have a good reputation :)... However, I can still boost that up. Style of speaking and politeness are amazing tips to keep in my mind because it only not increases chance of more rishtas but help you with character building.

Excuse me? I am sorry to disappoint you but don’t try to manipulate with my wordings by coming up with your own interpretations. Let me repeat my question for you. I am asking for MUST TO HAVE characteristics to make myself more in demand. Indirectly, I am also helping other girls by giving them secretive insights to increase their chances of having more marriage proposals as we are limited to options in the U.S. We don’t have much Paki community in America but why should we not make ourselves more competitive in some compartments to have a really nice husband for ourselves in future. This topic is related to improving, polishing, and presenting yourself at the best level that will make you a better person than before.

Finally, I am not seedhi anymore ::).. GREAT NEWS!!! YAYAYYYY... jayyyyyyyyyyyyy jayyyy

Thanks. I have highlighted the key words!!!... I am not trying to please anybody. :).. In-demand is correlated with improvement ;)... <3 You have given suggestions on MUST TO HAVE attributes that are very important! <3

Pakistanis are naturally great! :) . We don’t need plastic surgeries…

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"MUST TO HAVE" Characteristics, you should have these already, if not then it's not who you are surely?

"Secretive insights" surely these people want to be accepted for who they are rather than what "secret insights" and "must to have" characteristics they have read on an internet forum?