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May be he wants to be more kinky in a weird way for having angry sex..
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lol
was an obvious troll even then.
this is the "fatty baldy ugly dog" person. -___-
Hahaha it's amusing people understood who this troll is just by that phrase alone!
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Though when I begin to avoid him or threaten to leave if he doesn't stop he gets very sad and depressed. Sometimes he sais he cuts himself and sometimes he sais he will commit suicide because that is the only way out for him if I leave him alone. So I need some fresh unbiased perspective on this. It's a confusing situation.
Even more of a reason to leave. If someone needs to resort to this for you to stay, think about how little he has to offer! And saying things like this to someone to intimidate them and guilt them into staying is abusive.
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May be he wants to be more kinky in a weird way for having angry sex..
No, to say I want to have "angry" sex with you is to want to be *****, which is fine. To say I want to hit you and have angry sex is not...
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ok, from qhat I read, you asked for some unbiased opinion and want to know what the futur will be like wIth him. Here is it, not that I think you will listen: IT WILL GET WORSE. HE WONT SUDDENLY START TREATING YOU RIGHT AND BEING RESPECTFUL. HE WONT LEARN HOW TO COMMUNICATE THROUGH FIGHTS IN A RESPECTFUL MANNER. HIS THREATS TO HIT YOU WILL BECOME HIM ACTUALLY HITTING YOU.
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Now he is threatening me again. He said I was the one there for you througout everything and then you say stuff about me. Just wait he said to me your karma is coming. He said I am going to f*** up your whole world now b****. I don't know what to do right now. I keep apologizing but he is just getting more and more angry.
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One day he is fine and then three days later he starts again. Oh god !
So tell me again, why is it that you are troubled about being with this great catch of a renaissance man?
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He said don't you dare leave me alone and that I will always hate myself for letting him go. I am scared that what if he is right.
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And also because he said he made sacrifice for me so how can I do this ? I feel guilty too.
Sacrifice like what? ... It reeks of emotional black mail.
Let me just say that anger prone, controlling, people who don't treat their significant others in a respectable manner are a bad move.
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He does treat me respectably but he said I don't. When I make a mistake that is when he behaves bad otherwise he is fine. But I'm always making mistakes and hurting him and disrespecting him. The sacrifice was he was going to marry someone else.
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He said I came and f***ed everything up and now how can I just leave ?
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ok, what are your top 3 reasons for not leaving him?
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ok, what are your top 3 reasons for not leaving him?
Fear of not being happy somewhere else and not being able to forget him. And blaming myself for ruining the relationship with my stupid mistakes.
Guilt that he was going to go another route until I came along and he chose me but when the going got tough I got up and left.
Sometimes I think of the love we had and I want it back and I think if I can get over this problem then it'll be alright from there.
So he wanted someone else but chose you over her, that is his sacrifice?
And whether you are really doing something on a consistent basis that upsets him, or whether he is just blowing up at small stuff, the way he is displaying his anger is pathetic and the abusive language uncool.
But hey, you know yourself and him better than us random people on the net jumping to conclusions based on a situation or two.
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Fear of not being happy somewhere else and not being able to forget him. And blaming myself for ruining the relationship with my stupid mistakes. Guilt that he was going to go another route until I came along and he chose me but when the going got tough I got up and left. Sometimes I think of the love we had and I want it back and I think if I can get over this problem then it'll be alright from there.
ok, no offense, but you need to mature, grow a backbone and some self esteem. No one who actually love themself would stay in a relationship for those reasons. The truth is you will forget him, you will find someone else and for whatever reasons your relationship didnt work out, you will learn from it and grow. Stop being so bollywood about this: no relationship goes back to how it used to be, you are running after something that does not exist. And him being good to you 60% of the time is not enough, he and you shoudl be able to be good to each other all the time, even during rough patches. Given that this is not the case and he is well on his way of being abusive, be tough and leave. That's why I said get some self esteem, work on yourself. You wont leave as long as you dont fdeel you ddeserve better, and he will take advantage of that.
DUDE!! RIGHT!!! Angry sex. I think if your consent is not there, its called rape. Angry sex requires both parties to be angry and aroused.
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DUDE!! RIGHT!!! Angry sex. I think if your consent is not there, its called rape. Angry sex requires both parties to be angry and aroused.
lmao. would be interesting to hear what he/she THINKS angry sex is. Dude youve been AWOL lol. where you been??