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run the other way.......
any guy that shows this many signs of control and manipulation has problems.
he's not going to kill himself.
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Thnx queer for refreshing our memory. I was going to do a quick search for her previous thread. I think this guy is in pak right. Well angry sex part makes me think he doesn't respect u. Rest is upto u. We had a person here sometime ago. She had similar problems with her fiancé who swore at her and was disrespectful towards her . Everybody told her time and time again to walk out and she didn't saying she loves him and can't live without him. Last time she posted here, she had gotten married to the same guy, was pregnant and her guy hadn't changed. Things were actually worse cuz she was physically living with him. So choice and decision r yours. Be wise!
What what happened after she started living with him ? How did things get worse. I am asking because then I will have some idea of the future.
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^You should already have an idea of the future. What's so confusing about this situation? It's very clear that the guy has some serious issues so I don't know why you're still with him.
Why do girls these days sell themselves so short? Why stick to a guy who's threatening and manipulating you? Do you really want to marry someone who threatens to commit suicide?!
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What what happened after she started living with him ? How did things get worse. I am asking because then I will have some idea of the future.
Search disturb angel n c her posts. U ll know.
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^You should already have an idea of the future. What's so confusing about this situation? It's very clear that the guy has some serious issues so I don't know why you're still with him.
Why do girls these days sell themselves so short? Why stick to a guy who's threatening and manipulating you? Do you really want to marry someone who threatens to commit suicide?!
It's confusing because he said that I broke him into pieces and did not even look at where those pieces landed. He said everyone has a good side and an evil side and that depends on how I treated him. I hurted him so much that he became like this. That is what he is saying so that means I am in some fault here, it is not like I am absolutely innocent. That is why it is confusing. Do you understand now ?
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Hi
if like may be your id was ... SWAG Girl !
WTH is sag
is it saag girl like spinach?
still not attractive
What !
Oh and he is poetic
pieces of me fell here and there
Very poetic
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Hi if like may be your id was ... SWAG Girl ! WTH is sag is it saag girl like spinach? still not attractive What !
Oh and he is poetic
pieces of me fell here and there
Very poetic
It is my star sign.
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I swear after reading some stuff on GS lately i can actually feel my IQ dropping or cookies being deleted in my head. lol
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It's confusing because he said that I broke him into pieces and did not even look at where those pieces landed. He said everyone has a good side and an evil side and that depends on how I treated him. I hurted him so much that he became like this. That is what he is saying so that means I am in some fault here, it is not like I am absolutely innocent. That is why it is confusing. Do you understand now ?
So...just to be sure we're all getting this right: You told your aunt something in private. She spread some of the things you said around the family and told him as well. Your SO is now so upset he is threatening to hit you and have angry sex with you. And he is also saying he will commit suicide and weeps while he says all of this. And he says you have pushed him to become this way. Is this correct? Is he under the age of 18? He sounds very young.
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saggirl: I don’t mean to scare you but to me it looks like a abusive cycle; he gets angry at you abuses you, and when you threaten to leave he starts to cry and gets depressed and thinks he is not good enough for you. And after a few days the cycle begins again. I would recommend you to read the book “But I Love Him” by Amanda Grace. It will help you think clearly about your situation inshaAllah. And also read this article:
(http://thecollegecrush.com/im-not-entirely-happy-but-i-love-him/)
I wouldn’t suggest leaving him right away, since you’re married now, you both can try to go for marital counseling or something of that sort to help him out. And pray to Allah for yourself, for him, and for your relationship.
I hope things work out for your good inshaAllah 
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WTH is sag is it saag girl like spinach?
It can't be saag/spinach because that has two "a's" whereas saggirl has two "g's." So, a more reasonable conclusion would be that it's an abbreviation for the zodiac sign, Sagittarius. I thought it was obvious, but whatever.
In big trouble
He's manipulating you and this is a destructive kind of relationship. You may care for each other but that's not enough here. You need to make a decision based on your needs. If you will stay you need to know you can't change him and this will keep happening. If you leave then you need to look after yourself and yourself only, his threats are heavy, emotionally, mentally but you'll need to let go and move on with your life. And if you havnt learned your lesson already don't tell outsiders about your marriage/telationship.
Thank your lucky stars and praise God that you have discovered your Aunt's true colors and your boyfriend's destructive behavior before you got yourself deeper.
Don't entrust anyone with your secrets unless it if your therapist and lawyer (outside of your social circle).
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leave him ..... u can;t think of getting old with this guy.
spousal abuse ..... read on it. /the victim goes these emotional cycle everytime.
Send him a nice lovely card with hearts on it, spray a little bit of perfume on it as well, inside put a sheet of sandpaper, tell him to use that to have angry sex with himself.
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Saggy....I think you should write your "ugly/fatty/baldy/doggy" fiancé a pretty love letter in your own troll's blood so he can see how you're made for him!!!
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Sorry OP but the replies you gave to Insaaniyat in his thread, give an indication that despite all the advice ppl give you on here, you already have a twisted view on how men and women should behave. making me think no matter how your abusive hubby or fiance treats you, you are always going to make excuses for his behaviour and stay with him and have daughters with him and so this horrendous cycle will be acceptable to you to continue through the generations. Uffff yaar!!!
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Oh and btw first anger and then tears and trying to blame it on you that you dont think hes good enough and thats why he flipped are all first signs of a VERY abusive relationship. If you don't do your own research on abuse your asking for a messed up life ahead. Do the research i beg you. If not for yourself then at least for your children in the future.
Send him a nice lovely card with hearts on it, spray a little bit of perfume on it as well, inside put a sheet of sandpaper, tell him to use that to have angry sex with himself.
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