Imported Dulha

[Sara516]

@NaMaan

Ladies , why this idea of importing a dulha from motherland gets a HUGE . . . NOOOOOooo ? Means seriously its not a bad idea at all , and its not that people are not doing it . You see male doctors being imported all the time . Works like a charm . They get their USMLE , residency , and they are all set . I know couple of guys who are doctors , imported to north America , working there , married , and perfectly happy .

Somehow women living in America / UK still think that guys from back home won’t be able to fit in . Again wrong . I know guys literally fresh of the plane and talking to me in (almost) perfect American accent . We should realize that media has changed a lot of things in Pakistan .

He only wants Green-card . This is the hardest part . But again so is the guy who drinks , do clubbing and sleep around , and only marrying you for moola . You have to trust someone at some point in time . Plus a guy with no financial / legal security will think twice before doing it .

So let me close my arguments by saying that a well educated Pakistani man is a perfect fit for American/British culture , and women shouldn’t be afraid to import them as husbands .

For me it was never about the “fitting in” part but never wanting that “immigrant-spouse” life…living apart, sponsoring them, no job security etc.