Re: important event in anyone`s life is marriage
Are you married? My husband and I have been married more than 15 years now, alhamdulillah. We have compromised many times, and there is nothing wrong with that. Compromise and sacrifice are parts of any marriage. Intercultural and interacial marriages aren't unique in this.
Do you think that you will have an easier time of it if you are married to someone from the same culture? What if your personalities are completely different and you don't love each other? If there is no love and respect behind the compromise, then that is where resentment comes in.
Totally agree...no wonder people married for 15 or so years know it all. I have been married for 18 yrs!