important 4 marriage( looking 4 a boy)

hi everybody,

I have a problem! my mom is looking for a boy 4 me, but i don’t wanna marry any guy they say. i want someone i like..but my mom and dad have some things. like he has to be pathan( not peshawar or afganistan, but like lodhi ect.) and from a good family..good educated…

i’m 25 years old en living in europe..i’m born there…so anyone who has the same story and is from a good fam ( mayby khan )…and looking for a girl ..let me know and mail me ..i know it sounds stuppid…but im really not a person that wanna post a topic like this..i heard my friend someone on internet and she is happy married now…so we will see

byeeee

Re: important 4 marriage( looking 4 a boy)

i dont think its he rite place

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How about a Kashmiri?

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maybe shaadi.com

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I like Kashmiri girls... :)

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alright .. can he pretend to be a pathan till the wedding day?

Re: important 4 marriage( looking 4 a boy)

Zabardast, I have few rishtas for you but first submit your profile :-)

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In my opinion the cretaria shud be a good boy only and not the cast.

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even if u do meet on d internet u will have to meet each other n gt knw each other very well b4 u gt married , n on d net u will meet many dt wil act like d one bt wen u meet dem deyre nt .

so d net is nt such a good idea if u serious in gttin married

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Marriage is over rated anyway.

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What do u mean imran ?

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sorry guyz ,but i am serious!!!

its the stuppidst thing i ever did. but u never know

And imran ji ..bolo

Re: important 4 marriage( looking 4 a boy)

u guyz r right about that someone can pretend...but what should i do .

i don't believe in cast , but my parents do!!

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i thought all muslims were equal, this caste stuff is borrowed from the hindus

Re: important 4 marriage( looking 4 a boy)

If you are serious then look around you in college, workplace, community activities, social gatherings. There are countless good guys out there. Having said that, you must first consider the guy your parents are to choose for you if he doesn't fit your criteria introduce them to someone you like.

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but y u want ur merzi?

let it on ur parents....coz they have experience
n believe me parents kee khushi mey Allah kee khushi hoti hy.

n guys... some Khaandani families dont like to make daal chaawal(out of caste), koi kasmiri, koi butt, koi arain.

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wesy precious khan bhe pathan hy...in GS

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:smack: daaaal chawal khabi kah ka dekh nah kitnay mazai ka hotai hain…yoon daaaal chawaloo koo badnaam nah karai :naraz:

Re: important 4 marriage( looking 4 a boy)

this isn't really the forum to do this...try naseeb or somewhere else...also go out and join groups in your city area...muslim groups, desi groups, social service/olunteer ones with a desi slant you'll meet someone v. quickly

Re: important 4 marriage( looking 4 a boy)

but i dont like daal chaawal…and unluckily my hubby’s most fav. dish DAAL CHAAWAL