Re: Importance of education/qualification
I think most prefer if their husband is equally or more accomplished than them. However, I think that all a man really needs is the respect of his wife, and if she is able to respect him even if he is less accomplished, then good for them. All these people who say "compatibility is the only thing that matters"- this is true initially. But as the years go on, little things come up, and in one argument, a wife may say something like "whatever, I make more money" or "I'm more educated" or "i come from a better family" etc. you get the picture. The hidden superiority complex reveals itself. The wife may develop a superiority complex with the husband and/or in-laws. Or the man may feel inferior and be constantly irritated at his wife's achievements and not want her to be successful.
It's nice to be idealistic and believe that love is everlasting if you meet your compatible soulmate, but there's a reason people get divorces even though they loved each other before.