Well! My husband is Pakistani born and brought up and never left the country (yet) and all my life I had been running away from an arranged marriage, because I didnt feel like getting married when i was 15. Parents wanted me to marry my fathers cousin especially to get him a visa. He is in fact gay (yes, gays in Pakistan do exist) and my parents were willing to 'help' them by using 'me' to get him over here, get his passport and then bugger off. It was a plan. I of course didnt go through with it, did lots of things to get out of it, i did and now when i met my cousin in Pakistan, i fell head over heals in love with him and when i told my parents, they didnt want to know....
is ur husband ur cousin u fell in love with?