Re: im worried i wont get married....mummy isnt helping.
Alvena, my Mum was kinda extreme and really it wasn't in my brother's best interests. I think nowadays a lot of Mums will take their sons preferences into account more than mine did. Her obsession with pale skin was soooo strange, I mean how is corpse white even attractive??? Most boys nowadays want a pretty girl ie someone they're attracted to but without specifying skin colour, dress size etc. TBH rather than ur weight being a bad thing, if ur curvy I bet u'd get loads of boys wanting to marry u after they've seen u, u mentioned u get approached/chatted up at work so I'm guessing u do look great but u just don't feel that confident. My personal apparent 'flaw' that my Mum constantly pointed out when I was growing up was that I had big lips which she said was unattractive but funnily enough a lot of the so-called 'bad' points that our parents point out to us actually end up being pluses, I reckon it'll be the same with ur concerns about ur weight. Don't let ur Mum's words get u down, go to lots of desi gatherings, weddings etc. so ppl get a chance to see u and I reckon u'll have loads of proposals flying ur way :)