Im very worried for her, shes in denial

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Re: Im very worried for her, shes in denial

Tell the husband and ask him to divorce the wife.

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Nope, you’re not the only one. In fact, I was thinking the same thing the other day: Even in gora families, I doubt that a bhabi and devar would be so close without raising eye brows.

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everytime i read this thread i get the heebie-jeebies, it's disgusting!!!

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What happened to minding your one's own business? or does that only apply to men?
because since its the woman at fault (the bhabhi) here, she should be told on and divorced....right? :~)

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if her husband is not concerned... noone should be

if the husband has issues with it, he should speak to her and sort it out.

DANCE AND MASTI IS ONNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN....!!!! :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
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OH that's sweet. But it's okay for husbands to cheat on their wives?

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:smack:

This comment was sarcastic

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Well I guess you have put your point across and lets hope that your cousin has understood it too....and like others i am also surprised how can a 24 years old act so naive????but since she sounds naive here so she should be told where she is getting wrong (which you already did).... job done...now don't poke too much before she says"mind your own business" to you.

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Ya I figured. There’s no need to be sarcastic, uncle. Please be mature so the rest of us can follow your example. Thanks

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^As of yet, i am ignoring whatever you are throwing at me, but this may change.

Thanks

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[note] Great discussions folks but please let's not get all personal with each other. Thanks. [/note]

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best friends?

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ok guys and dolls i came back. well am positive somethings going on. and i feel weird telling you all. basically she was around mine awhile ago she doesnt have net access at home at the moment, so was using my laptop. anyway her convo with her BIL was saved in some folder i didnt realise this saves some msn convos, even mine are saved and i didnt realise. anyway he did call her bhabi,however i dont know i felt weird reading it. was very personal and maybe im out of line for reading it. im honest in tellin you lot that i didnt realise this saves convos. can i post some of the transcript, or not? im quite a paranoid person by nature so maybe im reading too much into it.

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like for eg....her husbands in pak at the moment, and when she was talking to her BIL ( AT 2AM THEIR TIME) she said where did you go, and he said he went to lock the door incase his brother comes in again.....( i assume the brother came in before) he was joking maybe.
the husbnd came in, and then spoke to her thru his brothers account, so when he went off, the bil said oh apki baatey kahatam hogi, mein to so gaya tha,he seemed miffed.

and thruout the convo, he was saing i miss you alot, ur my only friend, when r u coming miss you, so bored without you, etc he said he will buy her stuff and whatnot. i mean she was being jsut as enthusiastic if you know wat i mean...

it was 3am pak time by the time he went and she said oh sorry its late, he said never say sorry i love talking to you....

alot of misses and hug signs later, he signed out.

anyway i cant tell her i read it cos im obviously prying into her convo....

dono wat to say to her or him.

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And how did i miss this thread :smack:

And why do all new bhabi’s wanna hold hands with their BIL thinking:@:
Is it a disease new bhabi’s catch:konfused:

Sara, I think you are gonna have to ignore it, no matter how much it bothers you. One day things will come out or maybe they wont, but as long as its not your hubby who’s getting checked out by that girl your’re safe!

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hhmmmmm fishyyyy.........:D

►►►~*~HaPpY bIrThDaY fArIhAaAa~*~◄◄◄
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Alright, I’ve just been lurking on this thread cuz its just too gross. But here I have to say something:

All new bhabis?!? I think not. I’m a new bhabi and a shameless gori to boot, and I always keep a good distance from my very three awesome and sweet BILs. Sorry, I don’t care what excuse someone wants to claim, holding hands with BIL is just disgusting and it doesn’t take half a brain to know that it’s way over the line. IMHO any girl who does this is just an attention wh**e and is just getting her kicks from leading on an easy target.

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Please don't take an offence, but you had no business reading their conversation. It's not as if you accidently read it, it was very wrong.

Also, you had no right to 'publish' their private conversation here. How would you feel if someone did that to you? IMHO, it's none of your busincess, so stop being a busybody. They are adults and responsible for their own acts. You talked to her about it, you did you duty. You cannot force people to conform to a certain behaviour, if they are doing something fishy, you cannot force them not to, can you?

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Thank you!