My advice is...stay away from all of this...far far away.
If you are jumping to conclusions, you will look bad.
If you arent, you will look bad.
It may affect your marriage if you say something.
Your cousin is 24 years old...not 18...she doesnt need hand holding and is perfectly capable of managing her peronal life.
If she needs your help, she will ask for it.
For your own benefit, stay out of it.
Ditto that!!
I think she's mentioning the logic of "kill the messenger". Her husband shud be a man and take care of it himself.