its sad i wish i had a good relationship with me elder sister....
I don't think you will ever.
Just try to say somthing in a polite way which might or little bit to tease her or let her think what she is doing is wrong.
No matter what you'll do she won't ever ever ever change.
I know my cousins but due one sisters lots of love and help she reduced little bit but whenever she get a chance she says something and she even use her kids to say things to her.
She is even good to others even the dushmans but not good enough for her own sister. Her sister do whatever benifit her sister.
No matter what you do you can't reduce her jealousy. You might be good in many things which she can't beat. This is the reason she is jealous. For her whole life she will remain jealous to you.
Don't let her know what bothers you she will keep doing that again and again.
Aik bari umr ki shadi shuda aurat ko aap kia samjha sakti hain. Wo itni bachchi naheen kay na samjhi main kuch karti hai. Jealous loag bohat chotay dil o dimagh kay mailk hotay hain.
Wo daraasaal ahsaas e kamtari ka shikaar hotay hain. Yay ahsaas e kamtari shakl o soorat, qud kaath, husn o taleem ya logon ka aap ko pasand karna kuch bhi ho sakta hai. Bahar haal in hi cheezon main say koi cheez hoti hai.
Jahan tuk aap kay mahboob ka talluq hai to wo aap ka mahboob aur uski family kai ya bohat say lihaaz say aap ki bahan kay susral aur husband say kai guna bahtar hon gay.
Baat kar lo to achcha hai. Per faida koi naheen hona. Jealousy khatm naheen hoti kabhi bhi kisi tarha bhi chahaay kuch bhi kar lo.
Wish you good luck. Allah aap ko sabr day aur deal karnay ka sikhaay.
Kabhi uski buraiaan aur apni achchaiaan us pay ashakara kar dain achchay tareeqay say, baton baton main ya mazaaq say.
Jis waqt wo aap ko kuch kahay aap apna jawab tayyar rakhain aur sahi tika kay jawab dain chund aik baar karain gi to ho sakta hai chor day. Agar choray gi naheen to kum zaroor ho jaay ga. Insha Allah.
Azmooda nuskha bataya hai. Azma kar daikh lain.
Kabhi kah dain kay mujh main yay yay khoobiaan hain is liaay kuch loag mujh say school, college ya unviersity main jealous hotay hain. lol