im upset:(

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i find it hard to think if her mil is giving her hard time shes taking revenge from u.makes no sense.elder sis r not like that.
u urself said she said she'll make sure u n him get together n u become a part of her family , both to u n to ur mom.that was in the earlier stage of her marriage.as she came to know the family better she got against the idea.but u shunned all her advice n followed ur heart blindly.that made her angry at u.
i feel superiority complex in ur tone.i'm this n that n better than my sis in this way or other.don't forget u got the chance to meet ur man coz of her n her wedding into that family.she didn't giv u congratz on a good job coz u already r bitter with each other these days and perhaps she sensed same pride n sense of being better than her n "u r just jealous of me" attitude n is therefore ignoring u purposely.

forget ur ego n u better talk to her with open heart n mind rather than putting all the blame on her.

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I don't think you will ever.

Just try to say somthing in a polite way which might or little bit to tease her or let her think what she is doing is wrong.

No matter what you'll do she won't ever ever ever change.

I know my cousins but due one sisters lots of love and help she reduced little bit but whenever she get a chance she says something and she even use her kids to say things to her.

She is even good to others even the dushmans but not good enough for her own sister. Her sister do whatever benifit her sister.

No matter what you do you can't reduce her jealousy. You might be good in many things which she can't beat. This is the reason she is jealous. For her whole life she will remain jealous to you.

Don't let her know what bothers you she will keep doing that again and again.

Aik bari umr ki shadi shuda aurat ko aap kia samjha sakti hain. Wo itni bachchi naheen kay na samjhi main kuch karti hai. Jealous loag bohat chotay dil o dimagh kay mailk hotay hain.

Wo daraasaal ahsaas e kamtari ka shikaar hotay hain. Yay ahsaas e kamtari shakl o soorat, qud kaath, husn o taleem ya logon ka aap ko pasand karna kuch bhi ho sakta hai. Bahar haal in hi cheezon main say koi cheez hoti hai.

Jahan tuk aap kay mahboob ka talluq hai to wo aap ka mahboob aur uski family kai ya bohat say lihaaz say aap ki bahan kay susral aur husband say kai guna bahtar hon gay.

Baat kar lo to achcha hai. Per faida koi naheen hona. Jealousy khatm naheen hoti kabhi bhi kisi tarha bhi chahaay kuch bhi kar lo.

Wish you good luck. Allah aap ko sabr day aur deal karnay ka sikhaay.

Kabhi uski buraiaan aur apni achchaiaan us pay ashakara kar dain achchay tareeqay say, baton baton main ya mazaaq say.

Jis waqt wo aap ko kuch kahay aap apna jawab tayyar rakhain aur sahi tika kay jawab dain chund aik baar karain gi to ho sakta hai chor day. Agar choray gi naheen to kum zaroor ho jaay ga. Insha Allah.

Azmooda nuskha bataya hai. Azma kar daikh lain.

Kabhi kah dain kay mujh main yay yay khoobiaan hain is liaay kuch loag mujh say school, college ya unviersity main jealous hotay hain. lol

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Re: im upset:(

My God Heera u r making her even more against her elder sister.help her think positive n resolve the prob not over charge her with more anger.i havn't met her sister but somehow i doubt shes at all jealous of Mizz.

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As I have seen this situation helped my cousin. It doesn't change the jealousy of a person.

I know that but somewhat it works.

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Re: im upset:(

n how r u soo sure her sis is jealous of her??

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Whatever she posted from that and seen same situation. From that.

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Re: im upset:(

yaar just curious about some things

did you show support towards your older sister on her wedding?

if and when anyone ever said anything nasty or negative to your older sis - did you always take her side...or just remain quiet watching?

i dont think she is jealous. i think maybe she feels there wasnt enough loyality from you. she also sounds very hurt as you do.

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Re: im upset:(

khubsoorat collection i have always been there 4 her thats y i feel so hurt about how she is acting wit me

she went through alot of mess in her life and i have always supported her...i've stood up 4 her in front of the family said things in her favour everythng she was good with me until she got married thats wen she got on her high horse thnkin she is too good and no1 is as good as her

i dont know wat is wrng with her i really dont

gr8 heera thnx 4 he advice and i dont try to tell her anythng or put her striaght i am the type to just take it all in....i still respect her and wouldnt ever be rude to her to her face

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I know that. No need to tell me. But at least once it will work insha Allah. It's proven.