NomiCA
March 26, 2011, 12:22pm
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Re: I’m such a DORK - is age just a number?
^:k:
now this fine lady with a proper balanced head is ok with whatever happened…has decided to move on…no big deal…and there are people fighting to pinpoint the blame…
Re: I’m such a DORK - is age just a number?
Yah now this was wrong way of dealing with the situation. Ofcourse he knew prior to this date that you are older than him so he shouldnt have discussed these things with you if he knew he wouldnt want to marry you. that’s giving out a wrong message to the other person. However is their a possibility that he perhaps didnt have an issue with your age but his family did?
PinkOrchids:
Hey - let me clear up a few things - it was his choice to say no. I know lots of people (women) - who have married younger guys. One in my family a lady that is married to a guy 9 years younger than her. I wasn’t expecting to get married on the spot.
He asked me questions like: How many children I want, my education level, what I was looking for in a spouse, etc. He said we get on really well, and he really enjoyed himself. And I was very attractive (not blowing my own trumpet here, TOOT)
Later his texts were also very indicative - that he was interested, but then he turned around and said - I could only date you but not marry you. It would have been better in some reterospect if he hadn’t hyped things up and then thought nahh, and he could have told me before the meet, its not like we didn’t know each other before - i.e complete strangers. But each to their own. I am not gonna be running to his house with a pitch fork, in the middle of the night.
I definately get the vibe hes on there to date, which his own choice.
I was a bit annoyed initially, but after a days reflection - I am not, good luck to him. He text me saying he wanted remain friends - I was like fair enough, even though intially I didn’t think it was a good idea. But he is a family friend and could be awkward on family meetings, etc.
Re: I’m such a DORK - is age just a number?
why, you like older women? it’s halal diwana saahab. u have our ashirwad.
queer
March 28, 2011, 9:25pm
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Re: I’m such a DORK - is age just a number?
older women pe zulm…
Re: I’m such a DORK - is age just a number?
older women pe zulm…
jawan to bach jaein gey na..shukar
