So - I did something a bit silly. On this online thing looking for someone - that is parent approperiate.
And I saw this guy - who me and my family visited about a year ago. My aunty wanted this rishtaa for me. But I wasn’t sure what was going on. Etc parents invited them around and they never came, etc, cos it was a open come around if you have time, aka no seriousness about it. Anyway i saw this guy on this website - and I was like OMG i know you without thinking…
I didn’t know his age then cos it was just a going around of the houses - and hes erm… 4 years younger LOL.
He remembered me and was like - lets meet cos Its not exactly clicking who you are. His parents are one of my aunty jees acquaintances.
Anyway had a really good time - he liked me etc and then later in the day - he said I can only date you I can’t marry you cos the age difference.
I was shocked. I feel like such a moron. I didn’t think about the age - and he was like we are two peas in a pod.
I was like sorry - I am looking to get married - Like not right now puts her lengha on but soonish - he knew my age before we met. And he said he liked me when he first saw me over a year ago - he even remembered what I was wearing.
Actually thinking about it - I do have a problem with people who are younger than me - but we really got on! I think that was the thing! hes educated, a professional like myself, and we got on.
he's not really a mature guy if he has age issues...how does age come between love and marriage??? i posted elsewhere before, one of my relatives (back in the 1950s or smthing) married a woman 8 years his senior. If he likes you, age is NOTHING. Someone i know has married a guy 5 years younger than her, but they hid it from his family, and only her immediate family (and me) knows. And they plan to hide it so the guy's mum doesnt put on a drama. on her nikka nama it was decided her age should be written as a year below his (he discussed it with her and told her this)
so....your guy isnt mature enough. "i can date you but not marry cause of age ONLY"...erm what? are you for real?
Rizla - I think thats only cos I really enforced what I wanted and the type of person I was. I mean I didn't go extreme - but said seriously looking. Kinda thing.
summary: you stalked him on fb, sent him a msg, he replied and now wants to meet.. you went on a date, he makes it very clear to you that hes not gonna marry you but wants to date...
Facebook? LOL no - I didn't stalk him - I messaged him on a online matrimonial site, he wanted my email, and then gave me his number. I would have never contacted him if I hadn't recognised him - cos yeah I would be like 24 hmm. But as we got on - I am just a bit bummed out about it!
webmaster - hardly - LOL just we had a laugh. He seemed like a nice guy - Spock you are right. Glad my aunty didn't ask him for a yes/no to the rishtaa when we went and saw him. Anyway thanks guys.
(preferred that emotican) hehee.
