I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

[kaun]

Re: I’m so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

bachay concentrate on ur studies and enjoy life, dont get into such matters yet :k:

[southland786]

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

There seems to be some mutual attraction going on here.

[redvelvet]

@GuardianAngel

Okay ummm.. I want to get some facts straight first. >.< :hinna:

1. I am 14 years old.
2. The person here is around 20 and in college, studying to be an engineer.

Another side note that he never used to say this nor tease me like this. He had the same behavior to my close, 18 year old cousin.. she’s now engaged as of the previous year, and yet i have noticed that they haven’t spoke to each other for a very, very long time. this was something huge i noticed, since he always flirted with her and all.

i really don’t know what to think..

There could be various reasons why this guy and your 18-year-old cousin are not talking to each other:

1. Maybe his attention made her feel uncomfortable

2. Maybe she wasn’t interested in him in a romantic sense and didn’t want to lead him on.

3. She’s engaged and he probably thinks it would now be inappropriate for him to flirt with her.

4. Distance…grew apart. Some sort of conflict.

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WHY are you wondering about him and his intentions? WHY have you created a thread about this? If you’re not interested in him at all, the simple solution would be to ignore/avoid him. He would get the hint. But the fact that you have created a thread about him and are trying to figure him out…gives me the impression that **YOU **are interested in him (maybe subconsciously)…and that maybe you’re hoping that he’s interested in you. Or perhaps you’re flattered by the attention that he’s giving you and you want to know whether or not it would be considered flirting…because such knowledge usually is flattering. So, are…YOU…interested in hm? (Seems like it to me. Or you’re at least interested enough to create a thread about him).

I’d advise you to be careful. There’s a world’s difference between you and him. He’s done with high school…he’s in college. In about 2 more years, he’ll be done with with college and looking for a job…and you’ll STILL be in high school. He could be flirting or he could just be a friendly person by nature. Maybe he just really gets along with females. Even if he were interested in you…there are several obstacles to overcome (maturity, education, being main ones). Granted that relationships with a big age difference CAN work out…but can also have more challenges to face.

****If you’re not interested in him…and if he’s making you feel uncomfortable…just avoid him. I doubt that you’d see him 24/7.

[Mrs_Saieen]

You don't write like a 14 year old. I used to teach 14 year olds including advanced classes.

Yet another troll.

Some of us used to be really smart (i.e., good writers) as children. :(

[sweefs]

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

You sound really mature for 14 y/o.

Ignore him, he's 20...not to mention puhretty weird to be trying it with a 14 y/o.

[redvelvet]

You don't write like a 14 year old. I used to teach 14 year olds including advanced classes.

Yet another troll.

Used to teach that age group as well. 14 and 20.......not on the same wavelength.

[nadz123]

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

YOUR reading too much into this...

[Roxx]

@GuardianAngel

Okay ummm.. I want to get some facts straight first. >.< :hinna:

1)** I am 14 years old.**
2) T**he person here is around 20 **and in college, studying to be an engineer.

So here the story begins. I am wayyy too embarrassed to talk to it about my cousins who are close to him.

So lets say this guy’s name is Sallu. Sallu had came to my place (i live in the USA) 4 days ago from Canada. A day after he and his 2 older brothers had came, my family had planned to go out on a picnic with 3 other families just for the fun of spring here.

This is where the story really begins. I think he has been sweet-talking with me with chances he had when no one was looking.

At one point, I came downstairs with a pretty black and pink plaid, long shirt with gray skinnies with just very very light make up because I tend not to cake makeup like my family members do. Foundation, lip gloss and simple surmi was it which is usually my style. I just sat on the laptop near the table where Sallu was across me. **He was staring at me with raised eyebrows but when I looked up twice, he looked away. **I felt my face getting oddly heated during that small episode.

Second point, around 14 people consisting of 3 families were playing a game that was fun. This game consisted of an assassin killing others and people had to find out who the assassin was. He often poked fun at me and said he would be the first person I would kill.

He noticed I greatly matured and said I often was a sassy kid. And I still am, usually of course.

Before the game, he had my laptop since he wanted to check his email.** I left myself signed in in facebook and he apparently was having fun with the profile… i let him go through everything except my inbox** since i trusted him.

**he complimented me on my pictures and said I really need to be in colgate ads. **lol. he said i actually looked nice in all my photos, the more recent ones especially. i always thought i looked nerdy too. i was so embarrassed. :S

Another side note that he never used to say this nor tease me like this. He had the same behavior to my close, 18 year old cousin.. she’s now engaged as of the previous year, and yet i have noticed that they haven’t spoke to each other for a very, very long time. this was something huge i noticed, since he always flirted with her and all.

i really don’t know what to think..

Neither do I; let’s consult Chris Hansen…

[TLK]

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

Last time I had a crush on a 14 yrs old girl was when I was 10.

[Reha]

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

Ummmmm NO

You wont get involved with a loser like that because if you do...there is no turning back.

Guys like this usually tarnish girls' images for the rest of their lives so if I were you...I would run for it everytime I saw him.

[Niksik]

@GuardianAngel

Okay ummm.. I want to get some facts straight first. >.< :hinna:

1. I am 14 years old.
2. The person here is around 20 and in college, studying to be an engineer.

So here the story begins. I am wayyy too embarrassed to talk to it about my cousins who are close to him.

So lets say this guy’s name is Sallu. Sallu had came to my place (i live in the USA) 4 days ago from Canada. A day after he and his 2 older brothers had came, my family had planned to go out on a picnic with 3 other families just for the fun of spring here.

This is where the story really begins. I think he has been sweet-talking with me with chances he had when no one was looking.

At one point, I came downstairs with a pretty black and pink plaid, long shirt with gray skinnies with just very very light make up because I tend not to cake makeup like my family members do. Foundation, lip gloss and simple surmi was it which is usually my style. I just sat on the laptop near the table where Sallu was across me. He was staring at me with raised eyebrows but when I looked up twice, he looked away. I felt my face getting oddly heated during that small episode.

Second point, around 14 people consisting of 3 families were playing a game that was fun. This game consisted of an assassin killing others and people had to find out who the assassin was. He often poked fun at me and said he would be the first person I would kill.

He noticed I greatly matured and said I often was a sassy kid. And I still am, usually of course.

Before the game, he had my laptop since he wanted to check his email. I left myself signed in in facebook and he apparently was having fun with the profile… i let him go through everything except my inbox since i trusted him.

he complimented me on my pictures and said I really need to be in colgate ads. lol. he said i actually looked nice in all my photos, the more recent ones especially. i always thought i looked nerdy too. i was so embarrassed. :S

Another side note that he never used to say this nor tease me like this. He had the same behavior to my close, 18 year old cousin.. she’s now engaged as of the previous year, and yet i have noticed that they haven’t spoke to each other for a very, very long time. this was something huge i noticed, since he always flirted with her and all.

i really don’t know what to think..

Don’t think much of it.
At this age you should be focused on your studies and helping your mom at home.

[hitchki]

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

1) EWW

2) too much makeup for a child. Wipe it off.

[ria1328]

Ummmmm NO

You wont get involved with a loser like that because if you do...there is no turning back.

Guys like this usually tarnish girls' images for the rest of their lives so if I were you...I would run for it everytime I saw him.

There def. is that. If he gets even a hint that you are interested, he might go blabbing to all his friends and that, and you never really know where that kind of talk could end up.

[PyariCgudia]

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

Guys pick up on when a little girl has a crush on them. Lots of perverts out there. Just watch out.

[ria1328]

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

The basic consensus here is to forget about him, keep your distance, don't give him a second thought. Am I right people? Anyone wanna add anything?

[TLK]

The basic consensus here is to forget about him, keep your distance, don't give him a second thought. Am I right people? Anyone wanna add anything?

yes ...

... and post his phone number and picture here .. there are so many girls who can use a 20 yrs old boy.

[X2]

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

baycharay shareef insaan par pervert honay ka label lag raha hai, dude prolly thinks she is old nuff and not a kid so he can be friendly with her rather than treat her like a kid..jao biscuit khao etc.

berra gharq ho bollywood, geo/ary dramas aur teeny bopper movies ka..

[Niksik]

baycharay shareef insaan par pervert honay ka label lag raha hai, dude prolly thinks she is old nuff and not a kid so he can be friendly with her rather than treat her like a kid..jao biscuit khao etc.

berra gharq ho bollywood, geo/ary dramas aur teeny bopper movies ka..

Jee bilkul. Ameen.

[Roxx]

@TLK

yes …

… and post his phone number and picture here .. there are so many girls who can use a 20 yrs old boy.

By “girls”, do you mean cougars?

[Krypton]

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

i think you guuys r in loveee oooo0o0o