I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

Okay ummm.. I want to get some facts straight first. >.< :hinna:

  1. I am 14 years old.
  2. The person here is around 20 and in college, studying to be an engineer.

So here the story begins. I am wayyy too embarrassed to talk to it about my cousins who are close to him.

So lets say this guy’s name is Sallu. Sallu had came to my place (i live in the USA) 4 days ago from Canada. A day after he and his 2 older brothers had came, my family had planned to go out on a picnic with 3 other families just for the fun of spring here.

This is where the story really begins. I think he has been sweet-talking with me with chances he had when no one was looking.

At one point, I came downstairs with a pretty black and pink plaid, long shirt with gray skinnies with just very very light make up because I tend not to cake makeup like my family members do. Foundation, lip gloss and simple surmi was it which is usually my style. I just sat on the laptop near the table where Sallu was across me. He was staring at me with raised eyebrows but when I looked up twice, he looked away. I felt my face getting oddly heated during that small episode.

Second point, around 14 people consisting of 3 families were playing a game that was fun. This game consisted of an assassin killing others and people had to find out who the assassin was. He often poked fun at me and said he would be the first person I would kill.

He noticed I greatly matured and said I often was a sassy kid. And I still am, usually of course.

Before the game, he had my laptop since he wanted to check his email. I left myself signed in in facebook and he apparently was having fun with the profile… i let him go through everything except my inbox since i trusted him.

he complimented me on my pictures and said I really need to be in colgate ads. lol. he said i actually looked nice in all my photos, the more recent ones especially. i always thought i looked nerdy too. i was so embarrassed. :S

Another side note that he never used to say this nor tease me like this. He had the same behavior to my close, 18 year old cousin.. she’s now engaged as of the previous year, and yet i have noticed that they haven’t spoke to each other for a very, very long time. this was something huge i noticed, since he always flirted with her and all.

i really don’t know what to think..

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

Call the cops.

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

Don't pursue anything........that is if you were thinking about it ......your 14! (a minor) I personally think no 14 has their life in check to be going after a 20 year old (or anybody for that fact)....no matter how mature you are

Another thing which you have noticed and I'm sure are well aware of is his change in behavior with your cousin.......I'm pretty sure your smarter than that

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

maybe you are reading too much into it. I doubt if a 20 yrs old could be romantically interested in a 14 yrs girl, and if he is, that is sick.

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

he is definitely sick is he is doing all this stuff

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

Don't trust him. He's using you. If he did this to your cousin before, and now you, don't you think something's fishy? Btw why don't you bring it up casually with the cousin who he used to flirt with, see what she thinks. Lead into it, like "Oh that was a lot of fun with the family. Sallu and his bros should come down more often for family time" or something lol.

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

14?

You're a kid! He's a weirdo!

I know D: hahaha

it feels weird. i am not feeling...much except for ton of confusion, hence the title.

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

I dunno why but i find this so cute and adorable.

but really, u dont need to get involved with him.

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

Hey come on guys, dont assume that she is stating the facts, she is just talking about her perspective. I dont think he is flirting. He might be just kidding around. Read what she said at the end ..

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He had the same behavior to my close, 18 year old cousin..
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I. uh, don't want to jump in so much. again, Im just too confused to do anything right now. :/

Is it because I'm cute and adorable? ;) lol.

That same strange behavior (which sometimes I did not consider funny) to my cousin? thats what im talking about

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

You don't write like a 14 year old. I used to teach 14 year olds including advanced classes.

Yet another troll.

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

Honey, you are only 14. That is not the age where you can fully understand people's behavior. I am not saying that you throw all the caution out of the window but read too much into it either.

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

Just ignore him. There's no point in getting involved with anyone at that age anyway. Too much heartache......

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

Forget heartache. It's considered illegal and rape if you're in a relationship with someone so much older. This whole thread is sheer trickery.

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

20 and 14, this is truly sick.

or maybe your lil-brain is thinking too much about him ??

exactly!

Re: I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

Oye you feminists coughpcgcough ... oos becharay ne kahaan koi ultee seedhi baat kee hai GA se? fuzool main dont badmouth the guy. GA is reading too much into it, I am telling you.