I'm so confused right now. Is he flirting with me?

[GuardianAngel]

@sidra87

I think its just a little crush hunney! You are 14 and you are going through puberty and that is A ok. If you are crushing on him that’s okay too because it happens. What is not okay if he is trying to get with you. You are 14 darling and he is 18. Like RV said there is a world of a difference between you and him (education, maturity wise, friends, freedom etc etc)

What I am concerned about is that you, left your FB up to let him go through it to have fun. You are at an age that you need to become a confident young woman. Do NOT leave your personal things available to the world like that (email, FB, phone etc etc.). If you give a boy chances to go through your personal items like that it will become a very unhealthy relationship. Unhealthy as in the boy might always want to go through your stuff later even if you don’t want him too….Remember you should never have to convince someone to like you and someone wont like you if you leave your personal stuff up…

These age differences are okay when you are older probably in your twenties when BOTH the boy and girl have had a chance to grow up and become mature. Like if you are 21 and he is 24/25… but not right now…

He obviously flirted with your cousin so that should be a sigh… maybe he thinks the girls in your family are easily flirt-able… but either way he shouldn’t be flirting with a 14 year old… not normal!!! We are just telling you this bc if he is truly flirting with you he knows its wrong on so many levels yet he is doing it… not cool! And you having a crush on him is ok. BUT BUT BUT do not act upon it…. You are 14…

Enjoy your teens right now! Focus on school, have fun with your friends. I am sure there are plenty of cut boys in your grade to crush on. You will have your chance with all the older ones later…

I honestly did crush on him when i was eleven, but then again i was stupid at that age… lol

I don’t really like to get involved in love anyway, i’m sometimes more of an isolated person.

thanks for your post, there aren’t many sensitive posts here as much as yours (: calling him a pedo won’t help me at all anyway. there needed to be more of an answer…

there aren’t so many sensitive men here in my school, you should really see how its like… its crazy here. not your average typical american school just wilder. i wish i was back in my pak school where everything was simpler and much more fun.

idk why i even left my facebook on, BUT he didn’t get a chance to see the more personal and deeper sides of the album which i guess, is a relief.