I'm shocked

Re: I’m shocked

But does he know her as a person? As in have they talked on multiple occassions or something? I’m still baffled as to why he’s not open to meeting other “mature” women. Especially since’s according to you, he’s not in love with this girl And I imagine his family has no idea of his intentions…again…why.

I don’t see anything wrong with him wanting to marry someone he considers mature. But I find it very disturbing that he hasn’t share his thoughts with his family…when he knows they’re looking at younger girls for him. And so far, he hasn’t expressed interest in considering any other widows except this one.