I'm shocked

[queen_24]

Re: I’m shocked

@muqawwee123

One of my friend is determined to marry a widow (having a son) and whose husband died of cancer last year.

The problem is both his and girl’s families are too much conservative (conservative doesn’t mean religious to put before them example of the Prophet SAW and his beloved wife Hazrat Khadija).

The girl is living with her brothers. Her parents died long ago. Her In-laws didn’t help them during her husband’s illness and got her out after chehlem.

He has asked me to help him as I know both his and the girl’s family. The girl’s brother was my class-fellow and a good friend and girl was class fellow of my elder sister.

I’m very confused with this news and asked him whether he is doing all this because of sympathy with the girl (as I know he didn’t have interaction with her before and there won’t be anything like Love). His point of view is that its not due to sympathy (Tars), he needs a mature wife. I told him that there will be problems for the girl in case of marriage as her in-laws will fight for custody of their grandson. But he is determined to do that and ready to brought up the boy too.

I appreciate the act of this person if its without any mean. Suggest him from my side, istikhara karo and then go ahead. Good Luck.