ok say while ur considering potential person then u found out that the guy sort of does like dirty talk with his freinds .. he doesnt initiate it or does it often but when theyr doing it he’ll mkae a dirty joke or 2 .. say u found this out .. he doesnt actually do it in front of tohers or girls esp .. just with his close fiernds
would u totally cross him out as a potential rsihta or not?
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what's wrong with a guy throwing some dirty jokes with his boys?????
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in that case, be prepared to be single your entire life or convert to lesbianism
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…only a very tiny minority…lets say 0.00000000000001% of straight guys don’t talk dirty or tell dirty jokes
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All guys do dirty talk at one point or another AND many girls do it too!
As long as you think he will respect you and will be protective of you, ignore it.
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^ thats just it .. he seems so respectfull n everythign always talking postitively aobut life n so gentle n always promoting islam an d giving duas to eevery1 even my parents n so wel mannered but once..
his freind made a joke .. but it was quite ambiguous where i couldnt tell exactly if he was talking aobut me .. n while the potential did not laugh at it or carry it on but he also did not stop him or get angry .. he judt ignored it n stayed quiet ..
so im like confused now ?
should i totally like stop talking to him or is that like unfair?
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loosen up girl.....take things easy...if you getting worked up on a response to a joke (of which you are not even certain) made by some other person!!
you are seriously making a baat ka batangar, rai ka pahaar or whatever...
just listen to urself.......
he is ALWAYS positive,gentle,giving out prayers etc
he ONCE did not object to a joke by someone which may or may not be directed at you
you are overlooking what he does always and focusing on what he did once..
you gotta stop this habit of yours....because **NOBODY will ever **be able to comply with ur demands..
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Why would you judge someone so harshly???
I dont get it. Have you never done anything wrong in life? Have you never told a lie? Have you been perfect your entire life? What if he saw you doing something that was actually okay for you but in his family its the biggest taboo ever...would you want to be left because of that?
He cracks one dirty joke among his friends and that is equivalent to being disqualified as a marriage potential?
Soni, maybe you're not ready for marriage. This is not the stuff marriage is made of...judging people for stupid things like cracking a small joke with his male buddies.
Seriously, if you plan on putting him on the morality scale like this his entire life for small things like a joke or eating a chicken wing from KFC...dont marry him.
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Why would you judge someone so harshly???
I dont get it. Have you never done anything wrong in life? Have you never told a lie? Have you been perfect your entire life? What if he saw you doing something that was actually okay for you but in his family its the biggest taboo ever...would you want to be left because of that?
He cracks one dirty joke among his friends and that is equivalent to being disqualified as a marriage potential?
Soni, maybe you're not ready for marriage. This is not the stuff marriage is made of...judging people for stupid things like cracking a small joke with his male buddies.
Seriously, if you plan on putting him on the morality scale like this his entire life for small things like a joke or eating a chicken wing from KFC...dont marry him.
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what was the joke?
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LOL, I don't think there's any guy alive above the age of 15 who has never indulged in dirty talk :D
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Ok, if you don't find out anything (seemingly) "negative" about the person, I'd be scared. No one is perfect, they shouldn't present themselves as such, and shouldn't see anyone as perfect, either.
This isn't a huge deal AT ALL. Relax. Look at other more core values, that are important to you.
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... seriously .. that doesn't bother me at all what so ever ... Lol i actually do that somtimes to with my friends lol
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what's wrong with a couple dirty jokes with his friends?
i mean as long as the friends and he don't do it in front of you right?
some of those jokes are pretty funny :D.....:p
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You might be thinking that cracking a BAD joke is the indicator of BAD character... its not true dear... our behaviour is a bit different in front of our close friends and theres nothing wrong with that... you just consider his behaviour and attitude with you, your family and his family. If he starts cracking bad jokes with you, you might consider to let him go...
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LOL, I don't think there's any guy alive above the age of 15 who has never indulged in dirty talk :D
That's pushing it =P
But to OP...dude seriously? Don't even consider the cheap fool! My god, he has a nerve to even suggest something dirty in the comfort of his friends circle. TAUBAAAAAAAAAAAA. =(
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That's pushing it =P
But to OP...dude seriously? Don't even consider the cheap fool! My god, he has a nerve to even suggest something dirty in the comfort of his friends circle. TAUBAAAAAAAAAAAA. =(
No it ain't :p. It's true.
At least in Pakistan.
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Oh come on its like you never heard or shared a dirty joke in your life !!
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:) serious honay waly baat hi nahi this post is started on a joke it self :)
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^ True… is tarah proposals reject karo gi tau ho chuki shaadi 