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what's wrong with a couple dirty jokes with his friends? i mean *as long as the friends and he don't do it in front of you right? * some of those jokes are pretty funny :D.....:p
I'd feel worse if my other half felt he could joke around like that with other people but not with me..
OP, as others have said it's no big deal, at least he has a sense of humour.. you'll prob love it once ur married :D
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Jeez talk about conservative. I'd need to be with a girl who could handle that cause I make dirty jokes, sexual innuendos, and throw out "that's what she said" almost every chance I get. I don't think it's that bad and guys all over the world, of all religions do it. So do girls but probably not as filthy.
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deeba, i’m totally like that too, i like to be a part of that circle where a man would feel comfortable enough to be himself and i really like the sexual jokes, dirty/clean jokes, 
whatever, i wouldn’t want him to be so formal and “clean” around me. maybe because i’m like that too. hate it when there’s too much sensitivity around, atleast when i’m talking or joking around
but since the TS is very conservative i said what i said about her potential fiance being that way only with his friends. she’s different and woudn’t like that, but there has to be some adjustment from the woman’s side too, does all the change have to come from the man? imagine a total bore man who does everything in the most shareef way possible, for me that’s so boring and if there’s no sense of humor then i’ll probably fall asleep talking with him.
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well a man gotta do what a man gotta do - what's wrong with cracking dirty jokes?
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lollzzz.. that guy is getting sooo much support here... he NEEDS to know this :p
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Yeah, dunno why some ppl think this forum is full of man-haters/feminazis 
But then again some of the guys on here think simply wanting to work after marriage means ur greedy/westernised/a bad mother 
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queer had a genuine question but no one paid any attention to it :D
so again what was the joke?
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I posted such a nice joke here, the nazis deleted it.
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i'm curious too, i wanna know the joke toooooo
soni go ahead tell us then the mods can delete it :)
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i couldnt tell exactly if he was talking aobut me .. ?
i think the issue is if the dirty joke is directed towards her? not the fact that guys make dirty jokes?
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im not serious here.
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^ thats just it .. he seems so respectfull n everythign always talking postitively aobut life n so gentle n always promoting islam an d giving duas to eevery1 even my parents n so wel mannered but once..
his freind made a joke .. but it was quite ambiguous where i couldnt tell exactly if he was talking aobut me .. n while the potential did not laugh at it or carry it on but he also did not stop him or get angry .. he judt ignored it n stayed quiet ..
so im like confused now ?
should i totally like stop talking to him or is that like unfair?
alright, so you're thinking they were making fun of you? do you remember what the wordings were of the joke. why don't you ask your fiance to be what that joke was about and get it clarified instead of guess if it was or was not about you. do you think that would cause any issues?
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Nisha you really wanna hear that joke don't you? :p
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Nisha you really wanna hear that joke don't you? :p
how'd you guess? :p
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That was a good joke :D
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how'd you guess? :p
Because of my "skillz". Obviously
Sara what was the joke? I wanna hear it too :)
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so basically friends of your partner are making fun of you infront of him and he's ignoring it.
dump him as soon as possible.