I'm offended and angry, how do I communicate it to my husband

[aahmed]

@immune

@ Muzna: No, I was not ticked off when he showed me the pics. I got mad cuz when I said this one pic is really inappropriate, he laughed it off and then uploaded that pic alongwith the others, he could have skipped that one since it was kind of obscene.

@ aahmed: He knows how much I trust him thats why he showed me the pics, why else would he show me. And I do trust him, I just didn’t like him laughing it off, then uploading that pic. He disregarded my feelings when I commented on it and when he has a wife, he shouldn’t even have let that girl pose in that way… whether that girl was drunk or not. He could have just laughed and said my wife’s not gonna like that, could you just stand here with me instead of whatever she was doing.
Its like the more leeway i’m giving him and trusting him, he’s flaunting it in my face. There has to be a limit and I’m going to establish that from now on. I’m going to all his office parties from now on and I’ll see how he reacts when his co-workers come and hug me, he will probably not ask me to come anymore and then I won’t let him go either. Tough Love’s gotta work, no?

immune, you’re obviously going through some kind of culture shock. I don’t know where you guys call home and what your background is, but this is pretty standard in North America. I still maintain that you are over reacting and your over reacting is what will cause friction in your marriage, not a coworker drooping over your husband for 10 seconds for a picture that doesn’t mean anything.