@ Muzna: No, I was not ticked off when he showed me the pics. I got mad cuz when I said this one pic is really inappropriate, he laughed it off and then uploaded that pic alongwith the others, he could have skipped that one since it was kind of obscene.
If I am to take your description of this photo to be precise then all I can say is that the man that would publicize photos of himself in such a compromising post lacks good judgement. Sorry....don't mean to offend you by suggesting that about your significant other but either you are over exaggerating or he is not wise.
@ aahmed: He knows how much I trust him thats why he showed me the pics, why else would he show me.
Maybe he showed you because you are the closest person in the world to him and he should feel comfortable sharing everything with you.
Maybe he showed you because he saw no harm in what was happening in the pic because the participants were just acting for the camera.
The only reason he would not show you would be if he had something to hide.....if there was guilt associated. But there wasn't. You should trust him and believe that.
And I do trust him, I just didn't like him laughing it off, then uploading that pic. He disregarded my feelings when I commented on it and when he has a wife, he shouldn't even have let that girl pose in that way... whether that girl was drunk or not.
These are feelings that you need to share with him. Just tell him that you feel hurt that he dismissed your feelings. What's the difficulty in that?
Are you afraid that he's gonna think you don't trust him? If he does bring that up then reassure him but tell him that there is such a thing as "too close for comfort" and that pic helped you to understand where that boundary is for you.
@ He could have just laughed and said my wife's not gonna like that, could you just stand here with me instead of whatever she was doing.
LOL. Yeah.
I can see that happening!!!!!
@ I'm going to all his office parties from now on and I'll see how he reacts when his co-workers come and hug me, he will probably not ask me to come anymore and then I won't let him go either. Tough Love's gotta work, no?
Good luck with the tit for tat approach.
Let me know how it works out.