Re: I'm jumbled up and very tense :(
Relatives want you to live with them.. let them want all they like
I dont care how nice relatives are you should never live with them be it a month or 2 weeks because even the nicest ones become extra mean thinking they are doing you a favor
They dont want you to have your own place because they think its an insult to them and people will say oo they rented a place their relatives did not let them stay over.. but you need to be strong
the next time you are going you are going because of your shaadi rent a place dont tell them and when you go live there say your father rented it and for the shaadi he wanted a place. Say ull come over often.. you dont have to go over but say it.