Im in love, should I tell to my dad...problem

[Khumar]

Re: Im in love, should I tell to my dad…problem

@stoppit

so basically you’re worried that if you tell your dad, your current dating relationship will be spoiled?

you can’t have everything. either you carry on, without his knowledge, feeling guilty and having to go through rejecting rishtas for no good reason or you tell him and face up to the fact that things are going to change. if this guy is the want to marry, then i’m sure you can sacrifice a few years of dating.

you never know, your dad might be okay with it as long as it’s within limits. or as so many young people are doing these days, have the nikkah much earlier than the wedding so that you can hang out without any ‘issues’.

QFT.

IF the guy is really committed to you, he will not be hesitant about going up on the chopping block in front of your dad. Get the guy to send the rishta, and before teh rishta comes, make daddy-kins his favorite dinner, put on his favorite bollywood movie, and tell him that there is a guy who likes you and that you daddykins will like him.