Im in love, should I tell to my dad...problem

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Re: Im in love, should I tell to my dad…problem

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@Jannat90

Hi,

Im in love and im wondering should I tell about him to my dad & family now or later..
I have known this guy over 1 year now, and we are in love. He is pakistani, muslim guy, and he lives about 2 hours away from our home, so not far away. He is decent, and from “good” family and studying also.
We have talked about getting married after 2-3 years. We are not ready yet to settle down and start own family, both wants to complete studies before marriage. And now Im just thinking should I really tell my dad about him now.
My dad is against dating before marriage. He isnt like really strict but still im wondering how he gonna react. Problem is that now Im getting rishta proposals, and dad is asking my opinion about them. I have just said that im not ready yet, and he just says “okey, lets see again after 1 year”. But my fear is that he will “promise” for someone that I will marry his son etc. and I dont want that. But other hand if I tell him and he wont accept our dating our relationship will suffer, both mine and dads, and mine and my boyfriends. But like im also thinking that my boyfriend is probably my dads dream son-in-law so he would really like him, but then my dad could say that “U should get married right away” and thats not option either yet… So any advices, have someone been situation like this? Should I keep my mouth shut yet or not

from my point of view , let your parents know about it
and dont think much about dating and all .. what is most important to you >? if you both really love each other then i think most important thing is to spend rest of the life with each other so if you have to suffer that dating part then i think its ok ..

parents will understand the feelings of you both and also ask your BF to tell his parents about it so that if both families want to meet each other then it would be fine i think

rest is your choice**