*sigh …i dunno how to start…
ok so…i’m 17…and…i’m not one of those girls who r alwayz so dressed up n wearing all this makeup…
all my friends n all the girls in like…our circle like to do all that…(do their hair…makeup…dress up…get their eyebrows done n stuff…etc)
now me… i’m not into that stuff…
yahan pe…saari larkiyan they wear makeup to skool…everyday…i dont…they look beautiful…i dont
n i dunno why…i never cared or care even now about this stuff…like i wear a scarf ok…so baalon ko to chorein…par wese bhi… dunnno ANYTHING about cosmetics..makeup n stuff…i wud jus go to the cosmetics section in a store n stare at things…wudnt understand keh yeh cheez kis liye hoti hai…fir sochti hoon kisi staff se pooch loon par phir khayal aata hai log pagal samjhein ge mujhe…
kher…so i’m ALWAYS getting yelled at by my mom…n all the other aunties…
they r like…tum nahi samajhti ho ke larkiyon ke liye acha lagna kitna zaroori hota hai…hum barre hein humein pata hai hum is age se guzar chuke hein…etc etc
n then when i kinda talk back…
i get to hear stuff like…i can never be like those girls…mein pachhtaoon gi zindagi mein ..etc…
words that jus touch my heart n i feel like crying
now wat i dun undertand it…WHY shud i be forced to look good…dress up…do my hair…etc. i mean…i’m beautiful…and i KNOW it…only I know it…n i dunt understand why i have to prove to the whole world keh im beautiful…
now i’m not showing off or anything par…when i sometimes look at myself in the mirror…i think..those girls r nothing in front of me…if i start doing all those things THEY do to themselves…id look a hundred times more prettier…
parrrr all these older ppl…they think i need to SHOW how khoobsurat i am…
i mean ok…agar kisi ko pasand kerna hai to kere nahi kerna to na kere…
i dun want some1 to like me because of my khoobsurati…
n i dont feel i need to look khoobsurat for anyone…except…after i’m married then offcourse phir to farz hai shoher ke liye sub kerna…
par abhiiiiiiiiiiii
why why whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy do i feeeeel i’m ugglyyyy even tho i knowwwwwwwww Allah miyan gave me a khoobsurat shakal Alhumdulilah
like…mein sub ko kese samjhaoon…mujhe shoq nahi khoobsurat lagne ka sub ke saamne
i dunno how to explain…
i dunno if u guyz r getting the point or not par ohh well…*sigh
par then why do some ppl think i’m not as pretty as other girls…
they do say k…tum unse bhi zyada khoobsurat ho par tum apna utna khayal nahi rakhteen..unhe dekho…kapre…uper se matching ki everything…n baal bane we…n makeup…
par i dun wanttttttt to do all those thingsssss…i dunt see the point
i dont think they really mean that. What they are prob trying to tell u is that u should take care of urself and look “presentable”
trust me, i get this talk ALL the time and now i have two new people in the house who say the same thing.. but it shouldnt matter. U dont need to follow in the steps of every other person.. have ur own identity for goodness sakes :k:
tell u what, just take care of ur face, dont have to put make up on.. if anything, put gloss on..
but a friend of mine alawys tells me, just do it once or twice to please them
Rani feeling good or beautiful isnt important but being good is important ..if u know that u r honest person and never did nething bad or atleast try to be nice wid others then outside beauty dosent play any role …
if u have a prety face n dirty thoughts and no manners then wo beuaty kisi kam ka nai .. looks dont matter and personality is everything :k:..
n u have superb personality + looks … ( as i have seen ur pics)
as far makeup n stuff at ur age , im aganist it but kids :halo:.. at ur age are nowadays …lol (kidding) n n there s a big difference in " dress up like n xmas tree" n " taking care of urself" … n im sure ur mom wants u to take care of urself…n be urself !
Rani, just make sure you are looking nice from your own natural beauty. You don’t need make-up to show off heighten your beauty. It is fun to get dressed up sometimes, but there’s no need to be done up all the time.
Also, I know this is going to sound totally hoaky and cliche, but I really think that as you get to know a person, it is their personality and not their physical characteristics that affects their beauty and appeal.
Rani Rani Rani…ur so pretty…n i’m in love with u :love:
but seriously…ur really pretty…n dont worry…i get to hear tht a lot..
both my sisters r my complete opposites n sana toh yeh bhi kehti hai ‘if he sees u now he wont recognize u’
dont sweat abt it bachay…barray yeh kehtay hi rehtay hain…
but mujhay toh bahir kay logon nay bhi kaha hai ‘y dont u put makeup on like other girls’ and bla bla bla
i really get hurt whenthey say tht but baad mein i just try to forget it…
u know…eik kaan say suno…doosray kaan say nikalo
thts wat i do
and i knwo ur other maslaa too…dont worry sweetie
namaz parho (yes i know aap parhti ho) and just try to get involved in other stuff
love u so much n dont want to c u upset
waisay i still have the voice mail u guys saved on my cell… u guys r so cute…always fighting
i’m not into that stuff…
then offcourse phir to farz hai shoher ke liye sub kerna…
nowadays …lol (kidding) n n there s a big difference in " dress up like n xmas tree" n " taking care of urself" … n im sure ur mom wants u to take care of urself…n be urself !
..be cautious…
