My question is if she was so in love with him and did everything for the mama's boy . Why could she not get along and fall in love with his mother ? I am sure if she treated his mother the same way she treated him. His mother would fall in love with her and kick the son out for her daughter in law. Who does not like pampering. There is more to the story and I would be interested to know that part where this girl and this boys mother could not get along and why ?
I didnt pry too much because I dont know him that well anymore. What I did manage to get from him I believe he said because he wanted to talk to someone about it. I just happened to be there. From what he said..."un donon ki itni laraiyan hoti theen...ek doosre ki shakal dekhna pasand nahin karte the". But at the same time, he said "shayad kisi ne itna pyar kiya hoga jitna usko mujhse tha...meine kabhi nahin dekha". I was just as confused but also amazed at his attitude...he felt he did the right thing.
I think there is more to the story also...but not too much more. The reason I say that is because he unknowingly admitted he was deaf, dumb and blind in the presence of his mother.
Mirch, moms like the one in this story (as its presented) do not WANT to get along with the wife. The wife STOLE mommys little boy. She must PAY for stealing him. Mommy will tolerate her but will also strive to make her pay dearly and will lie in wait like an evil spider for one of them to toss in the towel. Then mommy is very happy because her little boy chose HER over all else.
Exactly. These two had a semi-love marriage. They found this girl through connections, the rishta was set up and they fell in love...really quickly. Mom didnt have much time to really pass a verdict because her son went bonkers for the girl so soon after seeing her. I remember it happened very quickly.
You know, it makes me think about the kind of mother I want to be when I have kids...it all starts at home. The one thing I will not tolerate is my son mistreating a woman and being unjust with her. Ever.