If its that bad you should get ur testosteron levels tested by ur doctor, you might get lasertherapie if ur levels are high.
-having hair does not matter, that is obvious but not maintaining urself is something else! we women allways complain that guys get fat and ugly after marriage.. this is kindof the same thing when most people here are saying it does not matter.
maybe people are trying to be nice to you....
In my opinion we all should maintain ourselves and ofcourse we dont need to b hairfree all the time.. when we dont find the time for whatever reason, its ok.. something you dont mind as a partner...
-I agree with bradiboi.. but why on earth are u getting ur armes waxed:P
I’m a bride to be as well. I was thinking of having an epilator as a back up to my usual waxing routine. I have the Braun one that comes with several attachments for face and the usual places.
From what I’ve managed to understand from my waxing lady, theres a difference between having fuzz (fine soft hair) and hair (thick dark follicles). Fuzz is normal. Guys dont even notice it. Because they are wayyy hairer . Hair, on the other hand, is a different story-- waxing all the way! Hope this helps
Hello fellow-hairy girls! Ok this is a serious thing haha. Okay so I’m also ‘hairy’ but I think all Asian girls are. Btw men DO understand that hair is natural and normal, so don’t worry about it too much. For my arms and legs, I used to use the Braun silk epil but that gave me ingrowns like crazy.. and the pain is just unbearable. I did that for a year, but now, I switched to a laser device: the Philips lumea prestige. It has 4 different ‘heads’:1 for the face: I use this for my neck, my upperlip and sideburns (you can’t use it on yor brows/forehead), 1 for the bikini area, 1 for the armpits, and one for other parts of your body (arms stomach legs) The device is quite expensive, but I must say it’s done a great job for my neck/sideburns/upperlip/armpits and arms. I didn’t use it on other parts yet.
Ofcourse, u need to shave before using the laser.
So yeah I’m happy!!.. and less hairy than I used to be haha
Why can’t we help someone without generalizing? No, not all brown girls and guys are hairy. Also @third_string again that generalization is not true. A Korean friend once mentioned that she helps her cousin shave her back which at that time, I didn’t even know was a thing. It all depends on one’s genetics and hormones.
I wouldn’t worry too much about it chaiwali, try waxing in all the areas you can reach so you don’t have to worry about shaving everyday, down the road you can get laser if the upkeep gets too troublesome.
. Hair, on the other hand, is a different story-- waxing all the way! Hope this helps 
