this is a bit embaressing, but im engaged but my fiance doesn’t know that im so hairy, sure i try to take care of myself waxing and stuff, but only on areas like legs, arms, important areas where women normally remove hair. but i am quite fair and have dark hair so there the hair is really visible on my back stomach really big places. Sure before the wedding night i can get a full body removal, bt how can i keep this up after marriage?
does anyone else have the same problem?
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You are not the only one who is hairy. Most of the girls are. Once you are married. Husband don't really care much. So don't worry. Just go on with your waxing/hair removing routine the way you do now.
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I soooo agree with bint-e-naeem...
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I agree with Bint
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realy men r not thinking like this....
natural hairs r ok dont take tension for it...
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Im hairy too...just keep up with the waxing! im quite self conscious too
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after some time guys dont' start to notice very much...just keep it updated.
OR if he really has a problem wiht it, make him pay for all the waxing/threading/laser/electrolysis etc. :)
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OR if he really has a problem wiht it, make him pay for all the waxing/threading/laser/electrolysis etc. :)
lol yea that will make him stop complaining ;)
and don't worry it's not that big of a deal like most people said most guys don't even notice it
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I know a girl that uses nair body for men on her back and stomach area. Her brother was a weirdo and got rid of his chest hair and what not and so she figured why not try it, it worled so she still uses it. I find that quite strange and i'm with the others i'm sure your hubby won't mind.
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or if you want to , bleaching could be an option too.. if the hairs are very fine .
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He will love you for who you are! But if you are decided on doing something about it, I have 3 words for you: laser hair removal
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My fiance commented on my knuckle hair pores ( they were shaven) and was liek EWW.
I was so MAD that I stopped talking to him for a few mins. It really depends on how metro your guy is, nowadays guys care a lot about these superficial things. I also noticed guys who have sisters notice things much more than guys who have brothers.
its so annoying! keep doing what your doing, but slowly start letting him see the real you...hell get over it over time
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i agree. men dont really care. i thought my husband would go find it off-putting, but its normal banter now. u stop caring if they call u fat or ugly, only cos its all jokes and banter and not really real. of course if u think u r fat or ugly-another story.
my husband thinks i shave my face- purely cos i get rid of the hair on face, so he assumes man thinking that shaving is the only way...however i dnt think he cares even if i did...
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you can compensate this by making him happy in other ways.
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i think constant waxing routine will help you out but dont worry abt it too much cuz its a natural thing.
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Personal hygiene is very important and it should be so not only concerning your marriied life ( for your partner) but for yourself too. Yes waxing hurts like hell but once you are all clean you feel good about yourself, don’t ya? So there is a price to pay for everything. Everyone whether a women or men should be well groomed whether single or married.
To those who are saying after a while the husband doesnt care about such things. Well i suppose it’s just that once you get comfortable you start taking each other for granted BUT i think that’s perhaps why every couple complains of loosing the “spark” 
so early in the relationship.
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or if you want to , bleaching could be an option too.. if the hairs are very fine .
From a guy point of view, bleaching is a big no-no. Women with bleached hair on her face are gross (Shilpa Shetty anyone?).
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Maham husbands don't care doesn't mean that women stop taking care of themselves. It means that if by any chance you are not able to groom your self properly they are okay with you because they have basically seen you in good or bad shape i.e with make up without make up & such.
Also its not the physical part why couples lose their spark. It has more to do how a couple connects emotionally.
Point is like how it doesn't matter to a woman if her husband is with our without shave. It rarely matters to husbands if their wives have over grown eye brows or teeny bit of hair here & there.
Oh & bleaching is a big no no. It is not good for your skin.
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Also its not the physical part why couples lose their spark. It has more to do how a couple connects emotionally.
Point is like how it doesn't matter to a woman if her husband is with our without shave. It rarely matters to husbands if their wives have over grown eye brows or teeny bit of hair here & there.
But it should matter :) That's why i said its imp for both to be well groomed. I didnt say it was only for the women to do so.
From what i have heard, most of the times its lack of physical part that brings all the differences in couples and i think emotional aspect is also somewhat connected to it and vice versa. But i suppose married people would know better so i would like to give you benefiit of doubt here.
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I wouldn't worry too much about dark hair on body. It's normal & i'm sure men are hardly bothered about it! :)