hitchki, it is not fun having to deal with issues, not at 14, 24 or 34. It does help though, if you can talk to someone and figure some things out on your own. 14 and all of teen years are very sensitive years of one’s life, as you may agree. And having someone’s support to talk to and figure those out can only help in the long term, especially if you have those counsellors available without having to pay a dime.