‘Khuda aap ko gham e Hussain ke siwa koi aur gham na de’!!
This is a frequent dua I read in many books. Recently read that it was first used by Quratulain Haider in her novel ‘Aag ka Darya’, though I remember reading it in the biography of Meer Anees written by Nayyar Masood.
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In Meer Anis words:
Ashra e Maah Aza naala kashi main guzre
Saal bhar Shah ke ghulamon ko khushi main guzre
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Another one by Mir Anees:
Her lehza fazoonizzat o iqbal o hasham ho
Gham ho to faqat Fatima ke Laal ka gham ho
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So, it actually came from Khaleeq (a Marsia go and father of Mir Anees)
Hasmat o auj fazoonher ghaRi her dum hoye
Gham e Shabbir ke siwa kuch na usse gham hoye
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Is dua per ek sher dimagh mein ata, behrhal yeh dua hy :$
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Dua hi to hai
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niraale logoN kii niraali du'aayeN. aise logoN kaa dil o dimaaGh isii udheR-bun aur chhaol meN rahtaa hai kab aur kaise koii nayaa kaam deen meN iijaad kar ke sawaab-e-daarai'n Haasil kar leN. inke diloN aur zehnoN se yeh sahvan kabhii maHv nahiiN hotii k aisii bid'aat se unke lauH-e-'aamaal par kia kuchh likhaa jaa rahaa hai:
"har bid'at gumraahii hai aur har gumraahii kaa Thikaana jahannam hai".
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jin ke naam ka darood paRhte ho, un ke gham ko biddat… 
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Prove karsakty hain app isey dua tu prove kijiye 
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Prove karsakty hain app isey dua tu prove kijiye :$
iss se baRi dua kiya hogi ke nabi ke piyaron ke gham ka ihsas ho, aur doosre saare gham aap se door rahen. aap ne wo hadees to paRhi hogi jis main Huzoor ne Hazrat Fatima (RA) ke liye kaha tha jisne isse ranj puhnchaya, usne mujhe runj pohunchaya, jisne isse khushi puhnchai uss ne mujhe khushi puhnchai.
ye aur baat ke hum waqaya e Karbala ko ik hadisa samajh kar pas e pusht daal den.
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vo Rasool-e-Kareem [saws] kaa bataayaa huaa tareeqa-e-namaaz hai.
yeh du’aa kabhii Huzoor-e-paak [saws], saHaaba-e-karaam [ajamain], taabe’een yaa taba-taabe’een ne kisii ke marne kaa Gham is taraH manaayaa? kabhii nahiiN…to, ise maiN bid’a na kahuuN to kia sunnat-e-Rasool saws] kahuuN?
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vo Rasool-e-Kareem [saws] kaa bataayaa huaa tareeqa-e-namaaz hai.
yeh du'aa kabhii Huzoor-e-paak [saws], saHaaba-e-karaam [ajamain], taabe'een yaa taba-taabe'een ne kisii ke marne kaa Gham is taraH manaayaa? kabhii nahiiN...to, ise maiN bid'a na kahuuN to kia sunnat-e-Rasool saws] kahuuN?
due ka taluq dil se hota hai, alfaaz se nahin... aap ne ye nahin suna 'ya Allah mujhe mangna nahin aata, per tumhe dena aata hai'.
ye unka gham hai jinhon ne sab se pehle aur sab se baRi biddat ke khilaaf awaz uthai thi. Gham e Hussain ko aap sirf ek firqe ki practices main rakh ke sochte ho, warna to Iqbal jaise shayar ne bhi kaha tha:
Islam Ke Daman Men Bas Is Ke Siva Kya Hai
Ek Zarb-E Yadulla Hi Ek Sajda-EShabbiri
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iss se baRi dua kiya hogi ke nabi ke piyaron ke gham ka ihsas ho, aur doosre saare gham aap se door rahen. aap ne wo hadees to paRhi hogi jis main Huzoor ne Hazrat Fatima (RA) ke liye kaha tha jisne isse ranj puhnchaya, usne mujhe runj pohunchaya, jisne isse khushi puhnchai uss ne mujhe khushi puhnchai.
ye aur baat ke hum waqaya e Karbala ko ik hadisa samajh kar pas e pusht daal den.
mujhe tu shahdat ka jazba ubharta hy, they all are role model indeed, ji meiny ajj he jumma k khutby mein maulana sahab se yeh baat suni, mgr iska dua se kiya talluq:$ kam uz kam yeh dua nhi hay meri nazar mein,
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mujhe tu shahdat ka jazba ubharta hy, they all are role model indeed, ji meiny ajj he jumma k khutby mein maulana sahab se yeh baat suni, mgr iska dua se kiya talluq:$ kam uz kam yeh dua nhi hay meri nazar mein,
jo Insaniyat ke ghamkhwar hon, unka gham agar dil main jaag uthe to kiya hi baat hai. Qateel Shifai ki dua main se ik shair hai:
Dard se mera daaman bharde ya Allah
phir chahe deewana karde ya Allah
ya dharti ke zakhmon par marham rakhde
ya mera dil patthar kar de ya Allah
ye bhi to dua hai.. aur wo bhi dua thi jo Huzoor (SAW) ki pasandeeda thi: ya Allah mujhe masakeen ke sath zinda rakh aur qayamat ke din unke sath utha.. bazahir aam aadmi iski gehrai main nahin ja pata, lekin iss dua ke peeche bhi ik hikmat thi.
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jo Insaniyat ke ghamkhwar hon, unka gham agar dil main jaag uthe to kiya hi baat hai. Qateel Shifai ki dua main se ik shair hai:
Dard se mera daaman bharde ya Allah phir chahe deewana karde ya Allah
ya dharti ke zakhmon par marham rakhde ya mera dil patthar kar de ya Allah
ye bhi to dua hai.. aur wo bhi dua thi jo Huzoor (SAW) ki pasandeeda thi: ya Allah mujhe masakeen ke sath zinda rakh aur qayamat ke din unke sath utha.. bazahir aam aadmi iski gehrai main nahin ja pata, lekin iss dua ke peeche bhi ik hikmat thi.
Or mere ilm mein hy yeh dua magar still yeh issey relate nahi ki ja sakti, behrhal behas baray behas ka mera iradah qatan nahi, mein sirf isliye kherahi thi kay gham agar bna liya jaye kisi bhi cheez ko tu woh kahein or hee ley jata hy insan ko, wakti toor per gham lagna aur mustqail ek cheez ko gham bna leinay mein bhut faraq hy,yani asal tu focus shahadat per hona nahi chahye?
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Or mere ilm mein hy yeh dua magar still yeh issey relate nahi ki ja sakti, behrhal behas baray behas ka mera iradah qatan nahi, mein sirf isliye kherahi thi kay gham agar bna liya jaye kisi bhi cheez ko tu woh kahein or hee ley jata hy insan ko, wakti toor per gham lagna aur mustqail ek cheez ko gham bna leinay mein bhut faraq hy,yani asal tu focus shahadat per hona nahi chahye?
gham ka matlab sirf rona dhona nahin hota. Gham ka naata pashemani aur toba se bhi juRta hai. Gham e Hussain to haq goi ki taraf nikalne wala rasta hai, usse mahaz biddat keh kar ik taraf nahin rakha ja sakta
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due ka taluq dil se hota hai, alfaaz se nahin... aap ne ye nahin suna 'ya Allah mujhe mangna nahin aata, per tumhe dena aata hai'.
ye unka gham hai jinhon ne sab se pehle aur sab se baRi biddat ke khilaaf awaz uthai thi. Gham e Hussain ko aap sirf ek firqe ki practices main rakh ke sochte ho, warna to Iqbal jaise shayar ne bhi kaha tha:
Islam Ke Daman Men Bas Is Ke Siva Kya Hai
Ek Zarb-E Yadulla Hi Ek Sajda-EShabbiri
aisii hii taaveelaat se to qaum gumraah ho rahii hai k bhai is meN haraj hii kia hai...du'aa hai, ibaadat hai etc. kia qabr par sajda karne waale taaveelaat nahiiN dete? aise falsafe se Allah bachaaye.
Khair jo mujhe kahnaa thaa so maiN ne kah diyaa, baaqii paRhne waale apne faisle Khud kareN...baHs o mubaaHise se yeh masaa'il Hal nahiiN ho sakte lihaaza merii baat jisko appeal kare vo us par mazeed research kare yaa use ignore kare.
Theek? :)
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gham ka matlab sirf rona dhona nahin hota. Gham ka naata pashemani aur toba se bhi juRta hai. Gham e Hussain to haq goi ki taraf nikalne wala rasta hai, usse mahaz biddat keh kar ik taraf nahin rakha ja sakta
Lafzun ka istimal hay bus warna shahadat e hussain hee per bat chal rahi hy !
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Lafzun ka istimal hay bus warna shahadat e hussain hee per bat chal rahi hy !
lafz jo bhi hon, maqsad uss qurbani ko yaad rakhna hai. warna to Banu Ummaya walon ne zulm to boht se sahabiyon per dhae the.. kisse yaad hai Abu Zar Ghaffari ka darbadar hona... kis ko yaad hai Hujr bin Adi ka na-haq qatal kiya jana jis per Hazrat Ayesha (RA) ne bhi Ammer Muwaiya se ihtijaaj kiya tha. Karbala agar zinda hai to inhi alfaaz aur inhi ghamkhwaron ki waja se.
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aisii hii taaveelaat se to qaum gumraah ho rahii hai k bhai is meN haraj hii kia hai...du'aa hai, ibaadat hai etc. kia qabr par sajda karne waale taaveelaat nahiiN dete? aise falsafe se Allah bachaaye.
Khair jo mujhe kahnaa thaa so maiN ne kah diyaa, baaqii paRhne waale apne faisle Khud kareN...baHs o mubaaHise se yeh masaa'il Hal nahiiN ho sakte lihaaza merii baat jisko appeal kare vo us par mazeed research kare yaa use ignore kare.
Theek? :)
aap doosron ke aqeedon per chot lagate huwe bhi research kar liya karen to aap ko wazahaten dene ki zaroorat na paRe.
theek?