If your husband or wife...

Tells you to stop being friends with someone or cut off contact…would you?

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Yes.

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without any reason umm no.

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No questions asked, no discussion etc?

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I would definitely want to know the background. If something bothers my husband so much, I would pay attention to it.

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My wife is my only friend so if she ever asks me to cutoff my friendships, she would not be very happy if I obey

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:naak:
omgwhatdididodotodeservethis. :blush:

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My husband isn't the type to force anything on me, but a few years back he told me to stop being friends with someone....reason being, he felt that over the years I had complained too much about that person, so (I feel now) his request was totally justified. I still chose to remain friends with them anyway and he was okay with that but he told me that he will not hear any complaints from me since I chose to remain in that situation (yeah i still complained :D). A few years later, that person isn't in my life anymore b/c I slowly cut them out of my life for my own good.

Meanwhile I know someone who would say "stop talking to that person/don't go to that place, dont' ask me why just do what I say if you really love me." That's unfair IMO.

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Of course.

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I'd like to know the reason and if its a valid reason, yes.

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no

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yes-if there is avalid reason behind it

no-if sirf chawaliyan marne ka shouq hai.

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lol :D

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if there is a reason, yes I ll cut off happily.

If there is NO reason, still yes coz ummm... usskay saath tou rehna hai :D - may be i ll try to convince him that he is wrong and change his mind.

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Ok aside from me has anyone ever been in this situation??

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No I haven't been in that exact same situation.

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I have been… and I did cut off without he telling me so. :hinna:

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err .. what did you cut off?

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^ his strings :ASA:

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I would expect him to explain the reasons why, he is not an unreasonable man, I trust his judgment so yes.