Re: if your family was wiped out would you move closer or away from religion?
The thing is that it is a common disease among human beings to take things out of context. When you refer to Quran, please make sure that you understand Quran by reading Quran completely. Quran explains itself several places that** The LOSERS** are the one who will enter hellfire.
give you just an example, rest you can read Quran and find yourself:
64:9 The Day that He assembles you (all) for a Day of Assembly,- that will be a Day of mutual loss and gain (among you), and those who believe in Allah and work righteousness,- He will remove from them their ills, and He will admit them to Gardens beneath which Rivers flow, to dwell therein for ever: that will be the Supreme Achievement.
64:10 But those who reject Faith and treat Our Signs as falsehoods, they will be Companions of the Fire, to dwell therein for aye: and evil is that Goal.