If you won't look, you won't find the one.

[Pakilarka]

Re: If you won’t look, you won’t find the one.

@inspiron

I dont understand. So from that one convo you two fell in love? and went to your parents?

Its not like i called back and said i wana marry you… Point is that the cold behavior to a non mehram didn’t make her image bad.

@Ashy2010

So you mean to say that you liked the girl because she had shown you her values? Or was that your parents who selected her for you? It seems to be an arranged marriage.

No my my parents were involved but only after I talked to my dad…

I think we were having as issue on this thread that if girl comes out with cold behavior then she will repel guys and with a friendly behavior its an issue too. What i meant to say was these things dont matter, Be your self and the rite person for you will like you for who you are.

@Paheli00

Nice and congrats! However, the MAJOR difference in your situation is that your dad and her dad had been friends for decades. So even though she came across as being cold…due to the family connection, you had the means to find out that she’s not a cold person but acted that way due to her values/beliefs.

We’re talking about situations where the families don’t know one other and there are no other mutual friends. There are no 3rd parties to vouch and say that the girl is really a nice girl even though she came across as being rude/cold.

That makes alot of sense.