If you won't look, you won't find the one.

[Paheli00]

Re: If you won’t look, you won’t find the one.

@Pakilarka

My Dad was in his childhood friend’s house, He didnt have a mobile on. So i had to call uncles home… Uncle’s daughter who I didn’t talk to for like 10 yrs picked up. I thought she wud be little frndly but she was like who, I am fine, uncle app ka phone hai… Very cold attitude.

That was December 2008 and today Uncle is my Susar, His daughter is my Wife and My Dad and Uncle have a common grand daughter.

Nice and congrats! However, the MAJOR difference in your situation is that your dad and her dad had been friends for decades. So even though she came across as being cold…due to the family connection, you had the means to find out that she’s not a cold person but acted that way due to her values/beliefs.

We’re talking about situations where the families don’t know one other and there are no other mutual friends. There are no 3rd parties to vouch and say that the girl is really a nice girl even though she came across as being rude/cold.