If you won't look, you won't find the one.

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Re: If you won’t look, you won’t find the one.

@Ashy2010

I always felt that I need to hold onto my values when interacting with guys. But I guess I need to realise that being more friendly with a guy is NOT against my values especially when my parents are open to the idea of anyone approaching me for marriage purpose.

I think you hit the nail on the head Ashy. Its about finding the right balance between not being ‘too forward/desperate’ and being friendly and fun to talk to.

We need to realise we can be friendly without being too forward without losing out izzat or going against our culture what our parents taught us.

There is a middle ground. Its not all black and white.