Re: If you won’t look, you won’t find the one.
LOL…thanks! 
Of course, if you ask my hubby, he likes to simply tell people that he picked me up at a bar! 
Why do you have a poker face? Or the “I’m busy” face? What’s the worst thing that can happen if you make eye contact and smile?
BTW, at least in my experience, guys approach guys like that often. I dated other guys before my hubby. All of whom approached me nicely. Obviously those didn’t work out for one reason or another. It’s not like the very first “nice guy” who approaches you will end up being your husbnad. And just 1 doesn’t work out…that doesn’t mean you close yourself to all others.
All the guys I know…they approach girls in a nice way. I can tell you story after story…good stories and bad ones.
As for the “hot” comment… I honestly do believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Yes, there are guys out there who may look at me and think I’m “hot”…and there are also guys out there who wouldn’t give me a 2nd look. That goes for everyone. As long as you take care of yourself and dress appropriately for the situation you’re in…that’s all that mattesr. And to be brutally honest…what I’ve learned from listening to my guy friends…a girl’s looks may attract them…but without the “right” personality…they won’t stay.
** On a totally un-related note: I’m very amused by this b/c I have the exact problem that you girls do…but when it comes to other girls! I have no problem talking to guys in-real life…hence have a lot of guy friends…but for some reason, I get how you girls get when it comes to talking to girls! It’s something I’ve been working on with lots of encouragement from hubby…but I’m quite aware of the frustration you ladies feel. All the tips I gave earlier…those are tips I’ve been working on myself in order to expand my “female friend” circle…and it seems to be working well so far.