If you won't look, you won't find the one.

[Hulahoop_Queen]

Re: If you won’t look, you won’t find the one.

@Decent_6Chora

One thing you guys should not do is to change your self just for the sake of finding rishta. Then it wont be a good match unless you are changing for good.

close friends, relatives and mosques/Islamic center are the best place to search.

I think along the same lines. Unfortunately, it doesnt work. I think thats the problem, I think its v. imp to just be myself while others I know have found people b/c they could be a little bit more witty or flirty with the guy. I don’t have both of those qualities, esp now with guys I hardly know.