Re: If you won’t look, you won’t find the one.
Maybe they want to come out, but can’t becasue of family restrictions? I know many women, educated, work, etc, they still have curfews or going out at night isn’t normal/allowed in their families…Just wanted to point that out…
But cold behavior in a family setting is totally different from cold behavior in a non-family setting…I think paheli or someone mentioned that as well…
I consider myself friendly but I would just only say salam to my dad’s friends/their sons/etc and I wouldn’t speak to them the way I would speak to, say, a coworker or classmate