All I would want is my son to be happy with his wife, if he wants someone with my personality then so be it, if not that’s cool too. At the end of the day my dil has to satisfy my son, I wont be the one that has to eat her food everyday or lie with her at night, so as long as she is educated both Islamic and academically (to ensure she can be a good mom to my grand kids) I don't really care.