No!
I will ask her to commit suicide after my death 
BTW How can we control our spouses after death? 
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I have already discussed this with my fiance ahead of timeā¦(talk about being prepared, huh? lol) Anyway, I told him that if I KNEW I was going to die I would help him find a wife before I died so that he would have someone left to console him and help him to not be lonely after I am gone. However, if I did not know I was going to die and then it just happened, wellā¦I hope he makes a wise choice! And yes, I would never want him to be alone and sad.
And the good thing about this is that in Pak he can already have her as a wife at the same time, so we can have realistic plans not fantasy plans. BEcause, one day, I probablly will go before him.
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How do you help your spouse pick out a wife? In the event that you know youāre going to die (letās say itās a terminal illness)ā¦imagine checking out and interviewing candidates for your spouseā¦in your spouseās presence. And trying not to let your bias/jealousy/pain get in the way of the processā¦whilst also coming to terms with your own end. Needless to say very awkwardā¦painfulā¦and kinda sorta filmi (though it might happen in real life).
If it were me ( and I knew I was dying)ā¦I wouldnāt pick/or help him pick someone. Heās an adult and can marry whomever he so pleases after I check out (not like I can stop him)ā¦Iād just hope (in the event we have young child/ren) that itās someone whoāll be good to them.
^If they did it I reckon most women would just pick a new wife they feel the husband wouldnāt love/fancy as much as them 
Iād find it really creepy picking out the woman whoāll be sharing his bed after Iām gone.. what if they canāt wait that long and think to themselves āwell sheās given us the go ahead, letās get down to itā
you would be dead man .. how come you would be hurt .. :d lol! .. sounds funy1
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You can always haunt your wife after death.
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I would want him to get married againā¦but he needs to make sure if we have kids and they are youngā¦b4 choosing the right wifeā¦he should be choosing the right mother for his kidsā¦other wiseā¦he is all free to live his life as he sees fit.
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No problem at all. As long as I can do the same and take out an insurance policy out on herā¦
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i will kill him wen im aba to die
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yes.
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Whatever she decides to do once I croak is up to her. I canāt control that and I am quite sure I wonāt be feeling jealousy 6 feet under. However, I am definitely not going to discuss this subject with her, ever.
What the heck kornā¦have mercy on the poor fella!
Btw i wouldnāt care if she did. As long as she got married after i am gone..then whatever. Because like it or not this is what i will do..re-marry.
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no mercy buddy
thats how im 
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ok first of all I would ask God to grant me long life to live with my spouse. If God doesnāt want it thaat then I wouldānt mind him marrying when I die. But I would never think of that only men can do.
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Weāve had this discussion many timesā¦usually itās me teasing him. I have no problem with him remarrying once iām gone from this worldā¦
Whether or not he acts upon that, itās up to himā¦but iāll know what iāll be doing if i was in that position. 
Too much of bollywood lately?
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LOLā¦I love the ĆÆnterview your competition"picture you have now placed in my head "red velvet! LOLā¦no, I never thought about interviewing anyone with him! 
Doing it like that would be teribly funny and I donāt really think you get the idea I was trying to giveā¦but I like the side comments! LOLā¦Anyway, He has a bigger problem with this than I do. If you love someone with all your heart you really donāt want them to feel the pain you know they will feel when you are gone. So, in order to avoid that I would want someone there for him, to console him. Yes, I want him to remarry. Will he? I have no idea. And lastly, in a perfect world, which we do have have, I would want to help him choose someone who could view our beliefs the way we do. WOmen are so tricky at heart some times. (I am one, and have met too many with trickery in so many parts of their lives) Even getting a man based on looks alone is a ploy women use to get with the wrong man. (i.e., they pretend the are faithful, loyal, religious, at heart just to win him over) THen after a while their true colors are shown and he is stuck with a true pain!!! For a long time to come!
So, would I actually āhelpā in the sense of actively looking? No, probablly not. BUt, if he found someone then I would want to meet her and get to know her. If she has Islam in her heart the way we do, then she will look at me as a sister, not competition. And if she has jealousy in her heart, then she also does not have Islam the same in her heart as we do. I think a second wife, for the right reasons are fineā¦providing she is the right woman, with the right attitue about Islam. (but thatās another subject, sorry!)
Now, would the next candidate step up, take a seat, and tell us why you would be the best woman for this position? >>>>>Interviews? LOLā¦hilarious!
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kakaballi:
I just have traditional views, not boolywood views.
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Also, BIG TYPO on my partā¦A prefect world which we do have should have read WHICH WE DO NOT HAVE! (of course!!!
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^ Do you believe he would āfindā someone while you are waiting to be transported our from this world?