If you die...

Lifestyle Relationships
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would you want your spouse to remarry? :aejaz:

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Re: If you die...

I want to live for as long as i can serve my purpose.

My spouse is free to do whatever she likes when i'm gone for there would be no way i could stop her or care about her when i'm in hell.

However deep down i would be upset naturally...

But i care nothing of this world when i'm dead... i'll have an eternity of pleasure and pain ahead of me.

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i'm gonna die at 84 ... after that i'll dare her to marry someone after (A)

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You never know…wasn’t there news about an 80 year old woman running away and getting remarried? :dhimpak:

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It’s a terrible world so much evil and good in one world just like me :hypo: :x2:

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if she can then kudos to her … and she totally deserves it

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:zobo:

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First of all, if you're dead.........you can't do anything about it....regardless of how early on in your marriage you passed away or whether you have left behind young children. You're dead...can't prevent it or bemoan it.

A trickier situation would be if you've left behind young children. Then you have to consider their well-being...and how the entry of another partner will affect them....and if that person can be a good step-parent. If I'm dead, I can't stop my spouse from getting hitched again...but in this hypothetical situation...i'd hope that she'd be good to my kids.

Life goes on...and for some....living it without a partner can be really difficult (even more so...if you're still young and have the rest of your life ahead of you). I think I would be okay if my spouse were to remarry.

For some reason, I don't picture myself getting remarried if my spouse died. Maybe it's because....I imagine I wouldn't want to go through the whole process of starting over and getting used to another person (especially in the event that I've been married for ages). But then again.......life is unpredictable..........and I'm not even married..........so it's hard to say how I'd react.

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If kids were involved i’d hate my children having to grow up in another mans shadow… then again if my sons were elder than 8 then the newcomer might as well run for his life… :2guns:

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tricky question...but in this hypothetical question you can't even do much about it incase your spouse does remarry ...unless of course you practically go haunt the potential woman/man and scare them away for good :D

reminds me of the movie ... 'over her dead body' :D hilarious ...

to the OP, is your thread inspired from that ? :) but yes we women tend to get overpossessive ..even if not in this world :p

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that'd be sick ^^

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Yes I would. I'd hate for him to be lonely as he gets older..

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no its actually inspired from the recent plane crash...my cousin's wife's bhabi was in the plane..she had just gotten married a year ago..she was coming to visit her mother when the plane crashed...her husband is only 26-27...and that was my inspiration

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oh that's so sad. May Allah rest her soul in peace and give her hubby strength. In this situation when the spouse is young, that makes it even more difficult haina?

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it really does...her family is never gonna forget her but for the guy...life moves on..that is what is so sad... :(

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paki_gal420, that is so sad..

It reminds me a bit of my uncle whose wife died last year at 31, he is remarrying prob this december (his son's best friend's mum) but his inlaws are furious..

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yea...u can argue both sides...as for ur uncle, he has his whole life ahead of him..he can't live alone

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NO! :snooty:

I would want him to build another taj mahal in my memory and shed tears near my grave all day long!

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lol…:omg: but…if he is crying..who is gonna take care of ur kids :konfused:

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yes if i die young and hes young