If you did not have a fight or argument with your spouse ,

Lifestyle Relationships
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ever , does it mean you need some spice in your life ?
Or it means you are living a happy and peaceful life and do nothing after all if ain’t broken why fix it ? Right ?
Or it is a boring life ?
Please write a 2000 word blog essay.

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Re: If you did not have a fight or argument with your spouse ,

it's bliss. but then that's my opinion ... fighting with spouse is really not something i imagine as particularly mind-healthy ... unless you're the kind who's "fight, kiss, make-out" sort :D

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Re: If you did not have a fight or argument with your spouse ,

Sometimes an argument is healthy and makes people realize each other's value.

As long as its an argument and not full blown punches being thrown around...AALL IS VELL!

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Arguments once in a blue mood to let it all out, Thats well needed. Arguments on a daily basis... Lord give me strength! I hate arguments, I'd rather brush it off until next month. ;)

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2000 words ..

ALL i can say is that If me n my wife are NEVER fighting. Thats cos we understand the relationship between us and we ve studdied the life of Prophet SAW and His Wives ..and UNDERSTAND how they lived. And simply FOLLOW What HE SAW has taught us in regards as how to treat your other half .. even to the tiny lil bit where ..to show love for each other that a husband CAN or Wife CAN put a nawaala of roti in each others mouth ..but some ppl think this is the way of gorey ... but it aint .. the Prophet SAW did this to show love for his wife, He even Helped in the Kitchen...but if a Husband NEVER helped his wife in kitchen .. and then expects his wife to make roti for him when ever he wants ..it CAN cause a fight that she can say .. i ve been in the kitchen all day long ..washing cooking etc now am tired give me 5 mins and i ll make ya roti .. and he replies .. i want it nowwwww ..however, if here n there he realises every day my wife makes me roti .w.hy not i make the dinner today and show some appreciation...

End of the day, the way i see it is that .. its how much you ve learnt as a Msulim from the life of Prophet SAW and you ACTUALLY practice it. Knowledge of something is useless ..as scholars have said .. its as if your a donkey carrying books.. not useful to you .. unless you practice what you learn.

My 2 cents :D

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You call it two cent. :bummer: It is a box full of million dollar bills. :silly:

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sorry, well compared to 2000 words its 2 cents ..:smiley:

But Just to say, its a TOP CLASS thread …It should get some possitive replies.

Just something i wana say when my father asked me that if you want to marry this gurl. He goes marriage is like a bike, two wheels, and your not gonna upgrade all your life .. your gonna keep this bike all your life.. but say 5 years down the line, you get a puncture i.e have a fight, argue..etc ..make sure to fix that ..but if you stop there and begin to throw punches etc .. you ll never get that bike fixed ..and you ll never get to your destination.. basically in other words .. your going along and you come across a speed bump .. your not gonna stop there to fight and argue as to why there is a speed bump here .. your just gonna carry on ..and so he goes ..are you willing to take the driving seat and get to your destination in one piece ..

Alhamdolillah, for myself .. am heading in the RIGHT direction :smiley:

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^ wow thats great mashallah! also i like the bike example!

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the relationship i was in before i got married was utter cacophony ... i despise even the thought of that time ...
my marital relationship is bliss Alhamdullilah ... i couldnt imagine it's possible to have a fight-free relationship. i like it this way :)

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Wow, Your dad is a genius , say my salam to him. Mashaalah , so full of wisdom. May Allay shower him with his Barkaat and Rehmat. Ameen. I am glad I opened this thread.

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FBI's replies - Wow, and Wow again!

Mirch Uncle. what is it with you and essays today?

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I noticed that this new generation of guppies is getting lazy and is posting short replies , so I want them to go back to work and start posting long , long replies. I feel like going to sleep when reading those replies. :D

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Once a gora couple asked me 'are you married ? ' and I was like 'No' , and they were like 'when you get married , make sure you fight with your wife ' and I was like 'Really!!' and they were like 'yea , it shows the communication . A marriage without communication will fall apart' . :)

So yea I think change of weather is good . Keeps you engaged .

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WWE style?

:p

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A little argument everyonce in a while is healthy, as long as there is not physical abuse. Everyone needs to vent!

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No argument is healthy period! Plus why fix something that aint broken.

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I disagree...having a perfect relationship is boring! You need to mentally challenge one another! And after the argument the best part is making up :)

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^ oh no, it doesn't have to be boring... all you need is a life and do something else than whining and moaning... so simpa

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You are right.

You are right too.

You are right also.

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no one is perfect...right (maybe your a special case) so everyone needs to whine and moan once in a while...and if you can't do that with the one person you love most...then your relationship isn't as healthy as you perceive it to be!

cheers!