If you did not have a fight or argument with your spouse ,

absolutely. You are so right.

You are not wrong either. only humans whine and moan , right ?

Re: If you did not have a fight or argument with your spouse ,

To my knowledge yes...

are you saying i'm not right either??

You are so right. which part of you are not wrong did you not understand ? :halo:

Re: If you did not have a fight or argument with your spouse ,

Fights and arguments are 2 different things. although lack of fight is also something to worry about :) but lack of argument is really serious matter. It just mean one of the two is living submissive life ....

I AGREE 110%!!!

lol..couldn’t you have just said that I was right…don’t have to beat around the bush! :b

Yeah , yeah , I am submissive , what is so wrong with being submissive ? I do not find anything lacking from my life. :ahaa: you gave me idea for a new life 1 thread.

Lack of argument can also mean that both the partners are shareeful nafs , nice , pious , and respect each other . NO ?

NO - What you are saying is actually “lack of fight”

and as I said, fight and argument are two different things although often arguments leads to fight which it should not. In other words all fights start with argument but not all the arguments should end at fight. There should be decent, healthy argument and at the end of the day, both can agree to disagree at min.

Yep , it makes lot of sense.

Wrestling with him is so much fun, getting tossed around like a pillow and all… :mudhosh:

Oh i totally agree with this..married for 5 years..never fought once..My husband always lets me get my own way!.and im quite sick of it all actually..sm ppl think ive gt it all..bt it doesnt feel right anymore I am naturally a very angry/person so I usualy vent my anger on my friends!

See a shrink , maybe ? :hmmm:

Re: If you did not have a fight or argument with your spouse ,

Arguing in marriage is a healthy sign and a proof of love, trust and good expectations.

Not arguing is bad in marriage. It shows you don't care other person to know your point of view and don't trust other person to understand your point of view. Both positions are are bad.

lol, ive considered it..but wt am i supposed to say? oh everythngs perfect but im still not happy..sounds crazy..so il think il jst stick it out!