Re: If you could make your choice without offending anyone…
Or she could have assumed they were not coming (which they didn’t) and reduced the number of seats on her side again saving money. I personally don’t think its the bride/groom’s responsibility to re-contact after first contact has been made. The ball’s in the invitee’s court to be courteous and pick up the phone/send an email/return the rsvp card.
Agree to disagree.