…would you want children at your wedding?
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we desis are ‘family oriented’ folks…we love children and we take them to everywhere from shaadis to funerals…we are incomplete without kids present everywhere! 
so YES! i would want ALL the kids at my wedding! 
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No they would Tear the flowers down, rip my dress, throw up on someone, the centerpieces would be all nangay boochay before the guest arrive and they would tell everyone all sorts of secrets!!!!
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I wouldn't cut the kiddies out. I haven't seen any kid annihilate wedding decor as of yet at the weddings we've had so why cut them out? Plus, it makes things hard for the families too...having to find someone to take care of the kids and what if they cannot?
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Nope.
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Ohh i thought u meant would you want your own children at a wedding!!! Super ditzy moment!! Others kids are more than welcome hehe
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No, but I expect the parents should be able to control them
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hehehe yeah grown up versions will be fine but kidos no no
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Yes, I love kids and am happy with them being there as long as they're well-behaved..
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Usually the grown ups are the ones getting on my nerves, children tend to run around and entertain themselves so I wouldn’t mind having kids there 
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no kids make shaadiz a lot of fun too ! So no children are most welcome. It’s some annoying grown-ups that are more of a problem 
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I could care less... I had kids at my wedding and it was teh perfect wedding ever (for me) but I know I will not attend a wedding if my kid wasnt welcome there. Just my priorties are different! :-)
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Our wedding was adults-only. There were only 2 kids that were invited: hubby’s 5 year old niece, and 1 of my cousin’s 4 year old son. Other than that, every single invitation was addressed specifically to couples and RSVP’s stated that 2 seats were reserved in their honor.
Yes, there were people who could not come to our wedding due to this. I was prepared for this mentally, and was in no way offended if people declined. I’ve seen kids cause scenes during other people’s receptions and wasn’t willing to take any chances. Heck, during my BIL’s wedding, some kid started screaming during the middle of their 1st dance…a scream that’s forever a part of their 1st dance song now in their video. 
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Paheli!!! 
I’ve missed you 
That was all.
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Yeah, I'd let all my kids come, it's not like Daddy gets married everyday. My eldest can be my shahbala. That'd be cool.
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I could care less... I had kids at my wedding and it was teh perfect wedding ever (for me) but I know I will not attend a wedding if my kid wasnt welcome there. Just my priorties are different! :-)
GTg Your own wedding
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Just to clarify, the question is about whether your own wedding would ideally have kids or no.
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thnkx for clarification, yes i dont mind kids :)
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apart from the children in my own family, everyone else is Mr. & Mrs. ONLY :) and most of the people i know dont have kids anyway....or those who do wouldnt bring them....
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