If ure hubby beats u

[MM]

Re: If ure hubby beats u

@SaeedinPakistan

I’d disgree there MM

An-Nisa: 34

So hitting wives is condoned, unless wives are obedient. This isn’t my personal view but it’s what the book says. Am I taking this out of context? Defend this!
Surat An-Nisa’ [4:34] - The Noble Qur’an - ??? ???

The translation I have from the same ayat is spelled out much better.

Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient (to Allah and to their husbands), and guard in the husband’s absence what Allah orders them to guard (e.g. their chastity, their husband’s property, etc.). As to those women on whose part you see ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly, if it is useful), but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allah is Ever Most High, Most Great.

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Same concept, better word choice.
So Laymen terms:
If your wife is unfaithful, first, try and work out the problem and conflict by talking to her. (Same as the first verse I quoted.) Then, if the problem persists, cut her off from “sharing beds”. And if after that she still doesn’t stop, then beat her. And even then, lightly. Not giving her bruises/ cuts/ making her look like death just passed her.

The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said, “The best among you are those who treat their wives in the best manner.” - Al-Tirmidhi, Hadith 217