Re: If this is true then Veena Malik should be banned in Pakistan.
Of course I wouldn’t say carry on but if people judge my whole family on the actions of just one person that’s their problem. Imo my dad’s, mum’s or even my brother’s reputations should depend on their own actions.. The whole concept of izzat is ridiculous to me because too often the emphasis is put on people finding out rather than on the actions themselves and of course it’s heavily weighted against the females in the family.. Why not treat ppl with respect as individuals rather than blaming or attacking them for what others have done??
I don’t believe in disowning.. it usually involves parents caring more about ‘what people think’ than in genuinely trying to fix the problem and help their kids (how easily can kids change and get their lives back on track with no support anyway?)..